[WildChild]

Well, this certainly isn't what I had hoped for you but if you are willing to work with it, that's great.
Why not look into Karezza?

[Texasred]

Get yourself a girlfriend on the side. That's how I and just about every Frenchman would deal with a wife like that.

Worked wonders for me...

[Guest]

WC, that's just what I'm doing.
What do you mean that it isn't what you had hoped for? I'm just curious, that's all. I do love her and I'm committed.

[rcoreyus]

My wife told me that our dating sex was basically to get me and keep me as she just isn't interested in it. !

She was willing to use sex to "get" you, but not to make you happy now? Maybe that isn't what you want, but has she offered?

[Guest]

No, she hasn't offered, but that isn't the thing that's so messed up. You see, when I am making love WITH a woman, I want it to be orgasmic bliss for us both. Not just for me, I don't want a woman to let me use her body for sexual gratification. I want her to get to the highest plane of sexual fulfillment that she could possibly be and then I will follow her into the sexual utopia. That's the way I want it to be for any woman who has ever shared the experience with me. My goal is to put her on such a level that no man has ever taken them to. I have found that it brings them to me wanting more. I Never make love To a woman, but I do make love With a woman. With is Soo much better!

[Guest]

Works wonders for attorneys to pay their bills with too. BTW, I need to go get a law degree so I can get women clients. In my area $120-$140 an hour is the going rate, of course I'd have to drop the price if she was paying or bill him double if I knew he was cheating. Yes, I'd make a perfect attorney!

Get a girlfriend? You have got to be joking- drag an innocent person into this and mess up her life too? Not logical guys, it's a recipe for BOTH of them to leave you. Then again, the old hand would be busy as ever, I guess.
Nope, I love my wife and I only want her. I'm willing to do the tough thing and stick beside her through the tough times as well as the good times. She IS the Mother of my Son after all- How could you cheat on your children's Mother? I might be a man, but this I just don't understand.
Law school should be in my future.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I don't think "people" take that into consideration, that if they have "someone" on the side, that "someone" is going to gain feelings for them and somewhere along the line someone is going to get hurt...

Even if the other person knows, and is okay with it...The "someone" does not get to sleep next to the other person every night, wake up every day next to them or go out to public places...How sad really,.

[Guest]

CW, I agree. Nothing like being put on hold for someone who's already in a relationship. I certainly wouldn't ask anyone to do that for me and wouldn't condone that behavior at all. What a miserable existance to be left on permanent hold.
I'll stick with one at a time. I'm 46 and have never cheated physically on anyone. Not even a prospective girlfriend, why start now on my wife? That's just not my style or my thing. I have too much respect for women and myself to be like that.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I just think there are options And, those options are, if you are not happy you leave ...Simple really yet it doesn't appear to be, it's like no, I have to stay, but I am not happy so I will stray.

Sorry it's my opinion

[WildChild]

WC, that's just what I'm doing.
What do you mean that it isn't what you had hoped for? I'm just curious, that's all. I do love her and I'm committed.

I'm disappointed that she used sex to "get" you. Thats a kind of thinking I've never understood.