[Bladyn'smommy16]

I decided since I do not trust him since he's cheated so many times that it is better we not continue I mean I love him but I'm tired of being worried what he's doing.. even though it has been nine months since he has cheated.. Still I believe in my heart that it could happen again.. And he wasn't willing to wait to gain back my trust he wanted it now.. But I couldn't... ):

[Trisha23]

I guess you are the one whose making things hard. You have to understand that your husband needs to work and cannot be with you all the time. You have to do something so you won't feel bored. You can bond with your kids in a mall or do worthwhile activities.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Your asking me to live alone when he works downstairs..?

[dyunysus]

Ok, I am male and have been married for 10 yrs. If i ever treated my wife like this not only would she kick my *******, but she would also hand me my walking papers. You sound like a wonderful mother and person in general. Also you said you work out for two hours a day...WOW that alot. After reading your posts it seem he is very self centered and only cares about himself.
The only reason he wants you around is to take care of things at home so he can do whatever the He**** he wants. That is not love! I hope you leave him and find someone who deserves your love.

Good Luck Darling!

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Thank you dyunyus, my situation has gotten a bit better we are separated but we are getting along right now.. So it is not as stressful of a breakup.. Still painful though

[Guest]

hi BM 16

u ll be fine