[amy40]

It's all about CA family law, which is really a sham. Not many men who've been through will again expose themselves to it.
Years ago when we were in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, I was thoroughly in love with her.

Years ago, why didn't you marry her then, when you were in love with her? Just curious. You don't have to answer.

CA family law......there are still people getting married in CA......

[WaveRider]

Good Morning, amy40,

Some of the uninitiated are getting married in CA. Divorced men very rarely remarry in CA. I'm dead honest: I know of no divorced man in CA who'll EVER remarry.

CA is a totalitarian state that has been ruined by immigrants and migrants who demand something for nothing that you're paying for. They have no clue of maximum individual liberty. Multiculturalism is an intellectual fraud. One culture will always rise to the top, which obliterates the fable of multiculturalism. Once beautiful CA cities in CA resemble cities of Third World nations. There are places of cities that the wise who favor living will not go for fear of dying. Our moron governor just raised gas taxes by 12 cents a gallon. It's a regressive tax that harms the poor most. If government can tax it, it will. Freedom is an allusion in CA. We can do only what government allows us to do, and that ain't much. CA has laws proscribing everything, not to control behavior but to raise revenue from fines to be redistributed in exchange for votes.

Most Americans have no clue of the genius of our Founding Fathers. They have traded liberty for the illusion of security and now we have neither. CA's gunophobes have left Californians as easy targets for criminals. Even if liberals get their way of a Californian Utopia in which all guns are confiscated, criminals will still have theirs. Believe me, criminals would love gun confiscation. It would assure that every victim is defenseless. La La Landers have no clue. They're beyond brain dead if they fantasize of criminals giving up their guns. It'll never, ever happen. They're criminals because they don't obey law. They make up their own laws that they'll violate when it suits them. Oh yeah, ~70% of CA prison inmates are illegal aliens. You're paying for their crimes, their arrests, their prosecutions, and their imprisonment. President Trump is 100% right: BUILD THE ****ED WALL!

CA is proof that emotional liberal ideology that is wholly devoid of historic fact and reality is an abjectly failed construct.

I was born in this state. It was a free state then. Migrants use fables as their maps and immigrants with governmental largess at American taxpayer expense have taken the great and destroyed it.

California is on the brink of BK. That was the predictable consequence of liberal ideology of redistribution of wealth. But our dummed down education system has assured that students are not exposed to grossly failed communism and socialism.

There is a reason why President Trump won and populism is replacing liberalism in Europe. People are tired of working for others. And in CA, women can force their ex-husbands to support them in lives of luxury, which is definitively slavery.

amy40, If you lived here, you'd know how bad it is. And it is a darker shade of horrific.

[amy40]

Wave rider I'm sorry it is so bad to live in CA! That must be why so many Californians have moved to CO.

[WaveRider]

I'm going with my finding a new g/f as being a done deal.

A good friend has told me that that woman I'm banging is manipulating me with her considerable sexual prowess. I was good with that manipulation. But outta bed, we have little in common. The fact is most women are excellent in bed. All a dude has to do is assure that they're comfortable and he won't betray her trust. Then turn her loose. When a woman is comfortable and trusts a dude, she'll tell him just about everything, especially how she most enjoys sex.

Due to conflicting end-of-school scheduling and her very controlling kid, I haven't seen her in a couple weeks. I used to think about banging her all of the darn time. Now I have my mind wandering in the direction of other women.

CDC STD stats have greatly modified my behavior. I don't want to contract an STD.

[Popcorn&Candy]

If those feelings are gone you'd be right to break up with her. Your knowledge that you'll never marry her should send warning bells through your head. Do the right thing and move on. You can't fake feelings that aren't there.

[WaveRider]

Hi P&C,

She's know for a long time that I'd never marry her...for a few reasons. About the only string holding us together is incredible sex. I've told her many years ago that if were to find a marriage material man to delete my number from her cell phone. I'll get the hint. But the problem for middle-aged women is men don't have to commit to anything to get sex.

I hope she finds a man who'll marry her. Reality is it won't happen. Optimism is a desirable female trait.

[amy40]

Hi P&C,
. But the problem for middle-aged women is men don't have to commit to anything to get sex.
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and for all you single women (any age) wanting to get married..........here's the reason NOT to give it up before you get married
I know firsthand the man willing to wait for you/ respect your wishes is the keeper, 100 times over

[amy40]

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[jns]

Housing is heading for the stratosphere in California again as the economy has became more firmly on track. The play between affordability of housing and jobs is the reason that people relocate from California. As far as taxes, many Californians love them. Years ago the voters voted to increase the fuel taxes. After that, they voted for politicians who would raise taxes. After people retire they may relocate to lessen their income taxes. Nevada has no state income taxes.

[atskitty2]

Not all middle aged women are looking for someone to marry. I'm not opposed to marriage but it is not the goal.