[InLoveWithHim]

how long does your man usually last?

[cassie66]

my man when he is in moood isusulally no longer than 5mins

[rhonda1967]

[B][[B]20 yrs of marriage/ most of the time it is twice a day. He has always woke up at 4;00 in the am hard as a rock. By 5;00 in the evening when He gets home, I am the one after it. We do have our sick days but not many. After reading these 2 to 4 times a week, we must be sex maniacs!hee hee> I would not change a thing. On our honeymoon we did it 7 times in 24hrs. My husband can still have sex twice in one hr. He works hard and has a pretty stressful job and he says sex relaxes him.

[rhonda1967]

FOR: INLOVEWITHHIM: How long can he last? We video tape alot of our love making sessions and from the start of oral sex to the final mutual orgasm, some of our sessions last about 1 hour. We like dragging it out if we can. Some time it just happens to quick, like in 20 minutes. We are very happy.

[kms]

Interesting posts! I was married for a year and we had about 5 attempts at sex - we were both virgins and had no idea what we were doing... plus our relationship was filled with problems and neither of us were attracted to the other. I got really turned off of sex from that, and it took my current bf almost a year to coax me into being a willing participant. We've been together about 2.5 years and have sex 5-7 times a week - he'd be happy with 3x a day but I just don't have the time from teaching a class, tutoring, my internship, and graduate classes! Sometimes he'll come visit me on campus for a quickie when he's feeling really desperate, hehe... A few times a week he'll also start trying to go at it at night while he's still asleep (so... sleepfcking instead of sleepwalking??). He'll say a lot of nice, romantic things to me (usually in his native language) and will start ripping off my clothes. Part of the way into it he'll suddenly go back to his side of the bed and resume sleeping (and of course by this time I'm awake now). He never remembers it the next day though, lol...

[InLoveWithHim]

FOR: INLOVEWITHHIM: How long can he last? We video tape alot of our love making sessions and from the start of oral sex to the final mutual orgasm, some of our sessions last about 1 hour. We like dragging it out if we can. Some time it just happens to quick, like in 20 minutes. We are very happy.

well.. from the start to end of intercourse lasts anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes... thats it.

[BAMABICE]

after having kids, i dont really have much of an interest in it.I have been married for 9 years and have 3 kids.We do it maybe once every other week if hes lucky.....Poor hubby.I just dont have much of a sex drive anymore.Is there meds for that??

[ziggy39]

Wow, reading these actually makes me depressed. I have been married to my wife for 9 years and we probably have sex once a month. Sex is like a chore to my wife.Everytime I ask, I'm told that she's too tired from work or dealing with the kids and she's just not in the mood. I seriously can not tell you the last time my wife initiated sex. It's a giant vicious circle. If I complain that we don't have sex enough, she will tell me that if I was more affectionate, she would want more sex. Every time I try to be affectionate, her response is "we're not having sex tonight".It's getting to the point that I'm tired of being shot down by my own wife. One final note, right before we had sex last month, see looked me in the eyes and said "this has nothing to do with you, but I have absolutely no desire to have sex." Talk about a mood killer. Any advice is welcome.

Frustrated

[kms]

ziggy: that sounds very frustrating - it must be so hard to have to deal with that.

My advice is to be affectionate to her as much as you can without EXPECTING sex to immediately follow that. After a while of a more affectionate environment, she'll more than likely come around and start warming up to the idea of sex. Likely she wants more affection without strings attached. I'm the same way honestly - I like being shown affection that stems from his love for me, not because he simply wants to get in my pants. He's giving something special to me - not trying to manipulate something out of me! Selfless vs. selfish intention. I want to have sex with someone who loves me, who wants to be with ME - not someone who's horny and is using me to satisfy himself. In the latter case I feel like more of an object and certainly nothing special. I could be anybody and it wouldn't matter. Now whether or not this is TRUE of you in reality is an entirely different story - but something like this could be how it seems to her.

[kerapetse]

It really doesnt matter how tired yr man/girl is,as long as there is a craving between the two,an extended time will be made.Its also a good source of exercising & relaxing.My man & i work from 8 to 16:30 evreyday & we are never tired to do it & we go all the way.Id say 5 to 6 times in a week & we live together.It doesnt matter wether one is cooking,taking a bath after work,or simply just watching tv,we never turn down each others feelings,even though im always demanding but he makes sure that he satisfies to my last breath.He refuses sometimes but i know which bottons to press & he's all hard & ready to shove it in.We even sms each other's naughty sms & cant wait to go home to do it.I once left him a naughty sms telling him how i want it tonight, on a paper in his shirt after ironing so as for him to find it at work,he called me the very minute he found it & he came over to my office & we did it.A little bit of naughtiness spices the sex of every person.Keep the young spirit of sex alive then u can nevre go wrong.