[Guest]

dude.

my experience with you is that you ask serious questions like this - then when i answer you start with the insults & silliness.

i'm more than happy to engage with you dude - and your insults are not much more than just funny to me - but others on here seem to get really bothered when we argue. bothered to the point of instigating formal complaints.

i'll answer your questions gladly & easily, if you really want annswers & you're not just trying to spark a fight.

let me know.

[Gia]

Pseudo Therapists AKA Quacks!

many divorce lawyers will tell you that porn is the number one wrecker of marriages.


oh really, name one? and one that can be quoted directly.

i find it funny that most sex therapists, do not see porn has a bad thing.

but insecure women and jesus freaks see it has a big problem.

Dude,

On The contrary, the reason as to why many therapists become therapists is because many of them have emototional issues themselves. Realistically, many of them are emotional wrecks and mentally distraught. They, themselves have never resolved their "mental issues". Many are Bi Polar and suffer from Boderline Personality Disorder, therefore they should not be licensed in the treatment of others. (until they resolve their own mental issues with whatever it takes...Medications, Exercise, etc...) Their reasoning is that if they can learn as much about their patients' problems then they can apply it to their "own failed marriages, their own insecure sexuality issues, their own addictions whether it is PORN,, substance abuse, anger management etc...There are very few successful Psychologists such as Dr.Phil McGraw. He struggled and he overcame many challenges in life. AFTER he overcame his challenges, he treated patients, NOT before or during as many therapists do!
When therapists treat patients (when some of them are "not of sound mind" and are suffering from mental issues" will lead to many MAL practice issues, they are perceived as experimenting with patients' emotions!
The analogy would be: "we are just rats and mice in a Pavlov Box to these psychologists/therapists!"
For example, and I wrote to Wilhelm about this a few weeks ago,(review my previous threads...)
My soon to be ex-husband and my Ph.D psychologist in marriage counseling specifically told me that it is imperative that:
"I, the wife of a PORN addicted husband needed to engage in PORN with my husband to "save our marriage". This psychologist did other mentally abusive tricks! (read my past threads!)
I sued this therapist which exasperated a monetary settlement in my favour.
Many "sex therapists" give incorrect advice, and should therefore be sued for Mal Practice. The reason as to why patients do not and will not sue their therapists for Mal practice is because "the PORN addiction, Substance abuse addiction , all addictions therefore become PUBLIC RECORD in Court, and addictive patients would rather lie to put on a faceade and to pacify others than tell the truth. Isn't the whole essence of therapy and how it works HONESTY!

[Guest]

folks,

you're banning all my playmates.

i may have to start watching porn again...

[laney]

whilhem,haha your to funny,but thanks for sticking up for what so many of us believe in and putting that guy in his place.not that im for or against porn thats not the issue here.i just think to catergorize the way he did shoes his lack of intellegence.oh and if you ever need someone to argue with...im here,but i'll win...haha

[Guest]

OK laney, but i only argue about porn.

[Gia]

Anti Porn Campaign

OK laney, but i only argue about porn.

Hi Whilhelm,

I have some ideas for an anti porn campaign.
Are you interested?

Gia

[Guest]

campaign? what do you have in mind?

[renfroe1012001]

why

many divorce lawyers will tell you that porn is the number one wrecker of marriages.


oh really, name one? and one that can be quoted directly.

i find it funny that most sex therapists, do not see porn has a bad thing.

but insecure women and jesus freaks see it has a big problem.

I know that jesus freaks are like that but let me tell you I am not jesus freak. Porn is a bad thing. It seems like made to hurt the other person. Why would someone who is happy with someone want to get off of on someone else I don't see the point in that? Could you explain that to me please? I know that I am insecure but I love my hubby to be and I want to make him happy and if he goes and looks at porn makes me feel like I am not doing my job or that I am not making him happy enough. I just don't get why they would want to do that.

[renfroe1012001]

why

many divorce lawyers will tell you that porn is the number one wrecker of marriages.


oh really, name one? and one that can be quoted directly.

i find it funny that most sex therapists, do not see porn has a bad thing.

but insecure women and jesus freaks see it has a big problem.

Let me tell you son I am not a jesus freak and porn is a big problem in relationships. It hurts the relationship. I don't understand why someone would want to do that if they are happy with someone else why they want to get off to someone who they don't even know? How do you think that it makes the other person feel? can you tell me that please?

[Guest]

can you put it in a pm?

laney - i also only argue about politics, philosophy, religion, and the color of the sky.