[spurzzz]

You should know that I am a Male and offering you suggestions on how we Males act.......

It seems to me that you are in a battle and you want to win. You want your prize. What type of Man gets his wife pregnant and sleeps with another girl falling in love?????????

Do not be a fool and think he will not do the same for you! He will get you pregnant and then fall in love with another woman. Why? Because he has a proven track record of being a cheat, numerous divorces and not knowing what he wants.

What makes you think you are so special for him? You are no different to the other women he has been with and the sooner you realize that the better.

I do not mean anything in a harsh way. I am just giving straight to the point advice, take it or leave it..........we all have a choice.

Sometimes for me people need to learn the hard way and today that someone is you. Just don't end up with a baby and regretting it when he leaves you for another woman. THINK!

[myhealth]

Ok thank you i will think over it.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

myhealth, off course it's confusing but no one is telling you, you are an emotional fool, or bad and off course, it's your life and you have to play it out, as you see it, feel it out.

If you want the answer?

What do you have to lose if he is "serious about you", "in-love this time with you".. tell him you will wait, but you can not see him whilst he is married, because if you were together with him in marriage, you would not like her there as another person in that marriage......

See, you are important as well.. And, if you were to do this, you will get your answer if he leaves her for you, or stays then you know what you have to do.

CW

[Claret]

I agree on what you said. If i constantly keep waiting for him. I will loose my age and i will just regret later in life. I will work on it. But i don't agree on what you said "you have already slept witha married man, it can't change....." I need to correct this sentence here. I have made love with my love who is mine. And i made love with him before even his wife could come. Anyways i had a feeling that discussing about my sh*t on the forum will frustrate people and irritate them because my case is like that and it happened. Anyways life moves on. Lets see what god has in stores for me. I will move on. Someday i will get some solution. Thank you for your time, patience and interest.

No where in my post did I state that "you have already slept witha married man, it can't change....." please read it again. If these are your thoughts then you know that it may not be acceptable for all people and it may not even be acceptable for you.

[myhealth]

Dear Claret,
I never said you said it. In CHANDLERS WISH's post these words are there. For which i have replied to her. Not to you. Anyways thanks

[Guest]

myhealth,

In order for me to get it right the first time, please, cut to the chase for me. What is the question or questions you have that I may be able to answer or at least give you my opinion on?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Dear Claret,
I never said you said it. In CHANDLERS WISH's post these words are there. For which i have replied to her. Not to you. Anyways thanks

Yes, you made love with someone you love.....whom however, is now married, telling you how to live your life, whom you can befriend, not befriend, what you can do, can't do, guiding you, (grooming you), as the other woman, because he knows you are in love with him.

Time will tell if he leaves, no man likes to leave their little babies, they are their children, their blood, their life....As long as you are there, then he doesn't have to do anything..

I understand your love, most women whom lose their virginity to someone HOLD ON to that person, ......first love.....

You are holding on to a married man, whom chose to marry someone else, regardless that he is also with you, he chose to why is that?

Do you know?

[myhealth]

May be s*x is the only thing men need. And we need just love. Alright now i agree on all of your points. I will definitely think over it. Thank you

[WildChild]

Sex and Love don't have to go together, nor are they mutually exclusive. Either can be wonderful on it's own and the two together are anything from fantastic to sublime.

[myhealth]

Dear Seeker_Advice to tell you in short. I am in love with a married man who has a kid. Infact me and him were in love from 5yrs. But he got serious with me and started loving me deeply after he got married to some other woman. Now, i am in love with him since 5yrs and he since 2yrs or less. Thats it. Now he is saying he will divorce her and asking me to wait.as he says he is not happy with her and living far from her. So now he and i are very much in love is what i think but don't know what the ultimate tag line. My confusion was whether or not to wait for him until he divorces her and marry him. but now i have cleared all my queries. Thank you