[myhealth]

Now finally. i think that, seeing me loving him truely and waiting for him till the time he came to me and i continued to love him irrespective of what he has done or s been doin, he has finally fell in love with me. Now he regrets for what he has done and has started loving me but he cant change what he has done already.I dont know about his mindset or what is he upto. But i will seriously think about my future.Now i think its the time to get a little selfish

[jns]

He is Muslim an I assume has enough money to take a second wife. He has a child with his first wife and even though he no longer wants to be with her, the child will complicate things if he divorces her. You want him for yourself.

Marriage is a compromise on all parties. Are you sure that you and her cannot get along, so he doesn't have to choose? He already made a choice that you didn't like: marrying her. What would keep him from a bad choice in the future? Even if he divorces her, he is unlikely to abandon his son. That will keep him tied to her, or if the son comes to live with him, a stepson to raise. That son should stay with his mother.

Have you and her talked about relationships and being with him? She must know that he has another woman that is taking his attention. Cooperation and collaboration may be a way to make things work.

[myhealth]

HI,
Above all what you said made sense. I will think over it and take a decision. Thank you so much

[myhealth]

Can anybody please suggest me some books or novels to read about overcoming depression or ways to live, or ways to be happy and strong, stuffs like that?
Thank you

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I am sure Wildchild will read this and she will give you ideas of books to buy and where from...

I just want you to tell yourself every single day, you are beautiful and worthy...Just those two words every day