[hotdogg]

whilhelm get a reality check! of course men find younger looking women more attractive thats just the way it is! men tend to prefer women who are under 40 years old!

women are no different, women tend to find men between the age 20 to 45 more attractive.

however that does not mean soon has my man turns 46 i will be looking to replace him! he will be older i will be older and we will accept each other flaws and all.

[seashoremaine]

Wow this thread is all over the place! Well I think I'm a pretty normal guy and have been married 13 years. I sometimes watch porn because:

1. It's fantasy. My wife may not have the same fantasies that I have. I would love to see her fool around with another woman, but she does not want to. Thats fine. Porn lets me see this fantasy in a more concrete way than just imagining it.

2. My wife has a lower sex drive than I do. Masturbating to porn is not the only way I masturbate, but it allows you to mix it up a little.

3. despite masturbating to porn on occasion, when I'm about to cum, my mind is almost always on my wife and not on the porn.

My wife knows I watch porn on occasion and she knows she does not need to be threatened by it.

-J

[hotdogg]

i agree seashoremaine,
my husband is into the lesbian thing thats the sort of porn he likes.

i have no problem with him watching porn, i like porn too but i prefer hetrosexual acts, lesbians do nothing for me lol!

both i and my hubby have high sex drives, i would say mine was slightly higher than his, he watches porn around once a week, i watch 3 times a week. it actually turns him on when he knows i have been watching it.

we are best friends and i love the fact that we can discuss anything with each other.

[ThePhotographer]

Because women only watch boring stuff....

My wife spends the day watching food network - or soap opera. If she is in the computer, she is watching some other soap operas, crochet stuff on youtube or crochet stuff on e-bay. So Porn is necessary because men and women think diferent. No woman will tell me it is wrong to watch porn because we think diferent. I don't tell any woman that it is wrong to spend hours doing crochet, watching soap opera, etc, so why a woman would tell me it is wrong watch porn?

[Guest]

plus i hate to break it to you but not all porn starrs are 18 year olds ever heard of milf on average the women are in their 40s.

what was your point here, HD? since you said this in response to my indication that the guy was ignoring his wife because he was looking at young girls, i figured you were refuting me.

but then you said this:

"whilhelm get a reality check! of course men find younger looking women more attractive thats just the way it is! men tend to prefer women who are under 40 years old!"

please clear it up for me, hotdogg. have i misunderstood you? or are you just not making sense again.

[hotdogg]

i said that because you were assuming he was looking at 18 year olds! how do you know what sort of porn he likes, he might prefer looking at women who are in their 30s, any way i don,t think men really care about how the women look (has long has they are not replusive) they just want to view a sexual act!

[Guest]

he probably was looking at 18 year olds.

but either way - why did you bring up this point at all? what is your point?

mine was that the guy is neglecting his wife because he's spending his efforts with porn.

[hotdogg]

so basically you are just making assumptions!

who knows why he does not bother with his wife! you do not know them so you can not generalize.

[Guest]

1. It's fantasy. My wife may not have the same fantasies that I have. I would love to see her fool around with another woman, but she does not want to. Thats fine. Porn lets me see this fantasy in a more concrete way than just imagining it.

great point. it has been my position all along that porn does give something to the viewer that the regular relationship is not giving.

your statement supports the idea that people look at porn because they are looking for something more than what their partner can give.

[stephreneeowens]

porn is wrong..no matter what religion you are, dont let anyone tell you any different. It puts ideas in your head that shouldn't be there especially if you are married. I dont like or watch porn, but on the other hand if your with someone and you like watching together, then it is fine. Although still wrong. Sneaking around to watch it is just like cheating which all comes down to trust and dishonesty. Porn is also an addiction, the more you watch it, the less attractive your wife might be to you, or less desirable. because your looking at all this fakeness. I think you can have a wonderful healthy sex life without porn. Actually without it, it would better, and more intimate between just the two of you and not the fake young woman on the tv. Remember the best sex has 4 equally important parts...emotional, spiritual, physical, and verbal. Only one of them is physical, so maybe instead of porn to get it, you should connect with your wife or girlfriend on another level or 3 to experience the best sex possible. Therefore not wanting or even thinking about anything else. Because your are 100% satisfied.