[Aubrey]

Butt hair.. I wish I had butt hair..I've got butt scars and skin irritation, how about that.

[lovablejenny]

is it bad to have hair right at ur butthole because it itches really bad and im scared of what people would think if they knew

[bunnygoesrawr]

lol

yeah dont worry hun i have it too....and the thing about laser and waxing....just think of it as like gym class were you shower in the same room..and its only one person..just think of it like having ur little sister do it for you..like you said....i mean its just one person..they have seen alot of them...and if they had a problem with it they would not be doing that job..lol so its kinda like going for a Gyno exam..just close your eyes and dont think about them doing their thing..so just think..all i ahve to do is get throught some chick looking at my and cooter...but i will hair/stubble/itch free for a frew months...it will be fine....


hope i helped have fun!!

[petrongalba]

Just out of curiosity, does the gene that gives women a hairy butt, come from their mothers side, or their fathers?

[mysterywomen]

im 15 now and obviously going through the time with the lads, im scared to promote my self to the lads due to the ''hair'' i have it all over and inbetween the cheeks, what is a 15 year old girl a meant to do ??

[Texinator]

what is a 15 year old girl a meant to do ??

Find a lad that isn't going to care about where she has hair..

[Aly3]

I too have hair on my bottom

I just wanted to say hi and to let you know that you are most definetely not alone with your problems and feelings. My father is Portugese and very hairy, and I think unfortunately I got most of his genes when it came to body and facial hair. It all started when I was about 11 years old (I am now 30). I have thick, black, stubbly hair all over my body: My upper lip, jaw, chin, in between my eyebrows, my forehead, upper back, chest, belly, lower back, hands, arms, knuckles, bottom (and it's extremely excessive down there), legs, feet, and toes. I was sitting in a park quite a few years ago with some people I didn't know too well and apparently my shirt had lifted enough when I was sitting that it showed all the dark hair on my lower back. He leaned over and said to me, "You must have alot of hair on your . I bet you have to shave it." WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE SAY THINGS LIKE THIS??? Anyway, I can completely relate to how you feel. I've had boyfriends dump me because of my excessive hair, and the ones I have been with sexually, I make sure the lights are low enough that hopefully they won't see the hair on my bottom very well. I did have a boyfriend that approached the situation delicately, and lightly burned all the long hairs around my hole off for me. Unfortunately, we broke up and it grew back. I asked a girl friend of mine to shave around the hole for me, but she went overboard and basically shaved my whole bottom. Even though I've let it completely grow out at times, it is still ALWAYS prickly, no matter what. The last guy I slept with I knew was discusted with what he saw, and didn't want to have sex with me again after that. I'm sorry that I don't have any answers for you, but I do want you to know that you're not alone. I don't know what to do about it either as I am very low income and cannot afford electrolysis, laser, or anything like that. I tweeze where i can, and shave my legs, bottom, knuckles, feet, and toes. It's very hard to live with, and I too have to take care of it first thing in the morning before my boyfriend sees it, and also stash all my embarrasing hair removal items. I hate that it takes up so much of my life and so much of every day. It's an extreme burden that no woman should have to endure. Anyone out there that can relate I would love to hear from you. Thanks.

[Jocy[:]

Well when i was 11 i shaved my legs,& arms for the first time.
later then i shaved my vagina & then my stomach because you could see the hairss. Im ok with the shaving the stomach thing though cus my closest friend does it too'
Then after still at age 11 i shaved my butt'D:
I regret itt but i only did it once & the hair isint really noticable
but you can feel it':/
NOw i am 13 & i am scared when it comes to having relationships that the guy might not want to .

Somthing that i found out is that you can use the gel thingy that you blech your upper lip with & do that so you wnt see the hairs
somthing that ive thought of is when you blech your hair on your head
if you do it to many times it falls out.
So im thinking one day ima do it
& i so R E G R E T shaving my booty hair'/x

[Jackson24]

i wouldnt feel soo embarrased girls, im a male n 'oh no a male reading our intimate threads', thing is girls have more knowledge about the same problem then guys tend to realise.

Back to you all being embarrased, considering most guys (such as myself) have exactly the same problem and alot of a more hair problem then prolly most girls as most hair genes tend to be on the male side of the family and not the females side as much, it tends just be more embarrasing for guys, although we all play the game of not caring, as do you i imagine.
Any guys here, stop me if im wrong but some guys are lucky an dont have hair on the their legs for example. Some are unlucky really unlucky, n get it coming up in all sorts of places.
And very few seek out solutions, as its mostly known to be 'unmanly of me/him' to wax his chest unless, his openly flamboynt and got a cute simle. enough bout guys though. Just wanted to point out that girls arent alone, that guys have it more locked in their genes making it harder to solve, an know im not pointing this out just to make it known that guys have more hair then girls, we win haha. No. thats stupid.
What i do, is remove hair from different areas on my body most upper atm, epliate it out, then exfoliate with very grainy cleaners that really cleans the skin etc, then lotion n if i need to moisturizer the area, if the skins very dry. wait a day or two for the redness to calm down, to regular exfoliating by loofah etc n lotion. n i have to say not only is my hair being reduced the more i do it. the better your skin feels n smells.

[Martin]

Wow just wanted to chime in here, was really shocked at what I was reading. My wife has a layer of fuzz on her stomach, lower back, and but that is a little dark as well as some longer hairs in between her butt checks. She shaves her pubic hair and occasionally her longer butt hairs but IT DOESN'T matter! I shave my scrotum and trim my pubic hair, although recently my chest hair has started to grow in more and I am looking at waxing it. Its all about personal preference and most of all its YOUR choice. My wife use to be very subconscious about her hair when we were dating but we DISCUSSED it and now she calls me furry butt and I call her fuzzy butt.
Hair is natural most people have it all over some more then others, but it doesn't matter. If it bothers you then wax it or shave it (waxing is by far the better choice). Almost every post I read had people ashamed of their bodies natural growth, which is sad. Being hairy, or not have perfect breast, nose, butt, feet, hands, neck, armpits, and everything else everyone is worried about is not something you can control so you should never feel embarrassed by it, ESPECIALLY if you are going to a doctor or a spa. Oh and girls you are not alone, guys worry about their bodies all the time too and are just as irrational. Penis size, muscle structure, hair lines, body hair, butt hair.

The bottom line is this, if you are not comfortable with you body and what to do something to change it like waxing or lazer treatment don't feel embarrassed, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks (I guarantee you a doctor or a professional at a spa will not judge you they make their living helping people shape their looks). In addition you shouldn't feel pressured to shave or wax if you don't want to. Isn't the whole point of dating to find someone to spend your life with? Do you REALLY want to spend your life with someone who wont love you if you have some hair in places where magazines and TV don't show it?