[Jackson24]

I'd say if its bothering you, then its most likely very much annoying you to where its uncomfortable, stressful an sometimes hurts or alot of the time (oh not to mention the whole hygeine mess of it all!).

For girls n guys that shave are probably the most annoyed as you keep putting time and effort etc into making it go away for a few days if your lucky. If i was doing that, i'd most likely would have drown myself in the toliet or something after a while. BUT doing since you were like 13? thats insane....

your direction of your skins hair grains would be mutated or something and taken over your life, not to offend any girl here as me as a guy can understand your pain of what your going through as i went through the same thing, just not all that much, all i did during my youth is trim it so its not to make the direction of the hair growth get out of whack, n most guys would do that an so we find that not pleasant, so to do what you do is 'wow'.

But at least for you, you will always look good in the end. for most/average guys we look distastful not matter what effort we put into ourselfs, i guess we just rely on alot of confidence. Im not one with much confidence, i realise its partly because of body image so im just trying to change parts of me to make me feel better, an for some girls i guess thats why you do it too.

But to do that you really need to work out whats the best solution to removing hair from your skin, as everyones skins is different. I researched all the different methods an have tried prolly about have of them (and no i didnt go to hair removal salon for laser or waxing and decided it wasnt for me) im also too embarrased, but for girls your soo damm lucky to be good looking, body image for you is all the confidence, a guy could hope for. SO for you going to get waxing or laser or whatever, is very acceptable now. And now men are starting to do it alot, not really by the average guy yet but it will soon. anyways thats my 2cents, n am i outa of here......

[Jackson24]

(I meant to add this to my previous post)
Too me my ideal body image would be to be born no hair other than my
head, be of just over average height so bout 190cms, so for later on
when i get old i will shrink down to a midget it will take longer for
it to do so before that would even happen to where im like half of 190,
i'd pass away by then.
Thirdly instead of teeth i want suckling tentacles that suck up food n
liquids, because really teeth just give you grieth (i cant spell) in
the end, right?
I also want a tubing thats like a tentacle again thats from my nether
region and it extends far away in a direction thats always behind me,
so i dont have to deal with any of that. Lastly a tan that never causes
cancer, n a mustache that says 'yeah i've been nude on camera, wat of
it?'

Coz really we all just want to not worry bout our bodys an just drink
and smoke an just not care, but thats just me.

[Guest]

Just out of curiosity, does the gene that gives women a hairy butt, come from their mothers side, or their fathers?

The family that has more hair I guess? LOl

Hair on butt sounds better than scratches over butt and on c-sec tummy
plus breasts...

[babygirl94]

same issue......mines very thing though but very dark! so its very noticable im so emberassed that my bf knows but he doesnt seem to make a big deal out of it...DO NOT DO LASER its a waste of money i got it done on my face and it has not helped me at all! my facial hair is still the same and i still find myself sahving it everyday

[LittleLady77]

RE: unwanted butt hair!

Ladies, I have to say it's a relief to find that i'm not the only person with this problem, there must be lots of us!

I used to wax my butt every couple of weeks but it would grow back the next day so i'd have to pluck - very time consuming!!

I bought an epilator and it's fantastic as it works on short hairs - i can get all the way round and doesn't hurt at all, though I was having to do this every day as it grows back so quickly!

But... then I discovered Kalo which is fantastic to stop the hair growth. It's not permanent but will slow it down so now I only have to epilate every 3-4 days if I follow the instructions, so I'd recommend it to anyone, esp if you have course hair. It's not cheap but does the job and I think the hair growth is actually slowing down after 6 months use: *Removed outbound link*

So hairy ladies, 2 things to invest in:-

1. Plug-in epilator (not batteries as they go too slow)
2. Kalo hair inhibitor spray

You'll be hair free in no time.

Good luck x

[mommy2Keyoni]

what i use is NAIR. best and easier way for me is get a full length mirror. stripdown butt naked sit with ur legs open and use ur fingers. u c exactly what ur doing and make sure ur careful enough not to touch ne thing but the places with hairs!!!! IT WILL BURN! as for ur butt lay propped up legs up and again use ur fingers make sure 2b very careful when goin near the actually hole. IT WILL BURN! i havent shaved in years cuz i always itch afterwards. so NAIRS been my best friend. i even have my bf use it on his privates. I HATE A HAIRY MAN! good luck.

[bellaok2010]

what i use is NAIR. best and easier way for me is get a full length mirror. stripdown butt naked sit with ur legs open and use ur fingers. u c exactly what ur doing and make sure ur careful enough not to touch ne thing but the places with hairs!!!! IT WILL BURN! as for ur butt lay propped up legs up and again use ur fingers make sure 2b very careful when goin near the actually hole. IT WILL BURN! i havent shaved in years cuz i always itch afterwards. so NAIRS been my best friend. i even have my bf use it on his privates. I HATE A HAIRY MAN! good luck.

Thanks for your advice! I dislike a hairy man too. I love long hair !
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[kaygold]

wow!!

I am SOOO absolutely relieved because i, like everyone else on here, thought i was the only one! im 16 now and like a lot of you i have been shaving my butt for a couple years now because im scared of someone seeing hair or my boyfriend touching my butt and feeling hair! even when i shave theresz still stubble. but im sooo happy that everyone has shared their story's and tips (: here a couple of things that girls SHOULD NOT DO IF THEY NOTICED HAIR

• absolutley DO NOT shave if you haven't yet, no matter how bad it is. it will get worse, try bleach

• if you have shaved and you want to try a hair removal cream, do not do it for at least 2 weeks after shaving because you will chemically burn the tender shaved skin. (been there done that and it was horrible, i got red marks everywhere and had to tell my boyfriend that i tried to spray tan after shaving and that's what happened)

• DO NOT spend a lot of money on laser if you cant do all the recommended treatments. i had to stop two treatments short and omgoshh it was gone for a while but then just started growing back again
  

also id like to say thank you for everyone that has posted, you see i have hair EVERYWHERE because of my very hairy father, my mom was luck and has barley none. im always envious of all my friends who don't have to worry about shaving because that is the method ive been having to do every day, i feel stuck in my own skin and its a horrible feeling. my father has Israeli in him WAY WAY back, but that's about it with the ethnic heritage, and im white so i had no idea other white girls got it too hah. but anyways even when i shave some places are smooth but most of it i can feel stubble. my dad and mom call me obsessed because ill spend about 40 minutes in the shower just trying to get everything, i shave my legs, butt, vagina(sometimes), back, stomach, in between my boobs, armpits, toes hands, and knuckles. and if its not smooth i have to shave again. im soo self conscious about it.

i do bleach and partially tweeze my lip and jaw, bleach my arms because thankgoodness i never shaved them.

I'm, definitely going to consider the kalo hair inhibiting spray after wax's because ive heard great things about it. but thanks everyone this has been an amazing help to mee

[Francesca_R]

I am 16 and became very aware of how dark my hair was when I was 12, my sister who was 15 at the time pointed it out. I have extremely dark hair on my arms because when I was 10 I was asleep and my sister shaved my arms as a joke, only the hair has grown back longer, darker and thicker. I also have the problem where the hair on my bottom is long, dark, coarse, thick and grows back very quickly leaving ingrown hair, pimples, rashes and soreness. I made the mistake of starting to shave after my doctor told me to when I was 13, and so I now have the problem 10 times worse. Because of this, I have ended up having some very embarrassing conversations with my mum, who of course will not let me have a full body wax. And so I bought and epilator, of which I am trying tonight. I am also going to try and persuade my mum into letting me try Kalo hair Inhibitor.

Many people say this is a problem that doesn't matter, but in the minds of people that have this problem, it does matter, and subconsciously it does matter to everyone, tests have proven it. I personally am very embarrassed to have someone anywhere near my private area, but maybe as I grow up, I may decide that I want it done. My point is, do what you feel comfortable doing, not what other people expect you to do, people will always be prejudice and dislike what is different, it is the way we get through the day, finding faults in ourselves and each other. If it really does bother you, try to pluck up the courage, ask a family member or friend to go with you, and together get waxed or whatever makes you feel comfortable. Don’t let something like this bring you down, my mum has been drumming that into my head for about 3 years now, if that doesn’t work, try being open with a friend you trust, you may find out they have the same problem.

Hope this helps and good luck.

[Brosiphina]

Ya, so i'm a dude, an i got hair, and I shaved it once, I was 13, but it got prickly, and it was just a pain sitting in school, so now I'm just letting it grow, hehe, so should I wax it?....