. I decided to tell my boyfriend just a little while ago why I was nervous to have anal sex with him and what I was worried about happening, and he was TOTALLY mature about it. He said that if anything like that happened, he said he would understand and that it is natural so its not a big deal. I was surprised, but then I wasn't, because that's just the kind of guy he is. Thanks for your advice and help! And yeah, I love eating lol so I don't think I'd be able to stop eating even if i wanted to.
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Faerunner: Your absolutely right
. I decided to tell my boyfriend just a little while ago why I was nervous to have anal sex with him and what I was worried about happening, and he was TOTALLY mature about it. He said that if anything like that happened, he said he would understand and that it is natural so its not a big deal. I was surprised, but then I wasn't, because that's just the kind of guy he is. Thanks for your advice and help! And yeah, I love eating lol so I don't think I'd be able to stop eating even if i wanted to.
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As a guy, it has happened with partners I've had, and I actually found it quite erotic... maybe I'm strange, and judge me if you wish, but everything about a woman is beautiful to me, yes, even her bodily functions.
If you stop to think about it, what foolish person would expect to play in that area and never expect an incident. Now that would be weird, if you stay together long enough, it's going to happen some time.
I think people get over the "poo phobia" after their first child, as if you've managed to avoid dealing with it until then, you're going to have a rude shock to deal with.Comment
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been there!
Same happened to me.. twice! The first time it happened i was really really drunk and i really didnt think it was my fault, although the second time i was sober and it was definitly my fault! my boyfriend was very mature about the whole thing and said that it was a good thing and a compliment to him, meaning that i had a really good time, he could have just been saying that to make me feel better! It hasnt happened again because im afraid to let myself get to that 'point'. I looked it up in the internet for a while after and it basically said that it happened when your body was so relaxed that it just let everything go, as people have said already in this forum. So dont worry about it, im sure if your friend is mature he wont find it off-putting!Comment
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