[cstevensg]

I would say just don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Just start out by giving it a kiss or something harmless.

Keep in mind that you might not want him to orgasm the first few times. From a males perspective this is actually quite annoying, but I'm sure he will put up with it if he thinks you are making progress.

Some people say blue balls don't exist. They do.

[atexasgirl]

Just do it when you are ready, if he loves you he will understand and be patient with you. It's really not that bad once you just get down there and do it, it's just kind of intimidating at first. But that's understandable no big deal so don't stress.

[pictures]

the first always hurts. its the thoughts that in your head. remember this is whats makes him happy. sex can, but this is different towards a guy, just like a female when she is getting kissed down there. if you want taste add syrups, lotions or whatever help to dismiss's your thoughts.
again, the decision is yours. for first timers try it with pop rocks

[Foreverme25]

Just go for it. It's really not that big of a deal. I love doing it for my boyfriend and he loves recieving it. If it really grosses you out have him take a shower before or better yet do it in the shower, thats fun.

[fredman]

Take your time. Get comfortable with your body and his. Have fun. Don't wait too long, or you may lose him.

[mandee2007]

For all you know its unlikely but its a possibility that he may not even like blow jobs....So I say you give it a try...you dont have to put the whole thing in your mouth....worst comes to worst you dont enjoy it and you move on....if he seriously ends a relationship over a blowjob thats pathetic....Take your time...explore....maybe do 69 so you dont have "stage fright" that way your also getting pleasure so it kinda makes it easier to handle....Just relax....

[amaranthine]

You shouldn't do anything you're not comfortable with, but I'm sure you could work up to doing it. I was very, very nervous the first time I gave a guy head. I worried about the taste, the feel, what if I hurt him, or what if he doesn't pull out in time and I get shot in the mouth?
Just build up to it. I think Wildchild's idea of starting in the shower is a great idea. The penis is very soft and so not scary! I actually really enjoy giving head - my boyfriend and I aren't quite sure who likes blow jobs more lol.

I think a lot of the appeal of blow jobs comes from the visual. He just wants to see you down there, in plain view, loving his penis. Saying that you think giving him head would be gross is the equivalent of a him telling you that your vagina is ugly. Wouldn't feel very good, would it?
Of course don't be forced into doing something before you're ready, but try going into it with a more open mind, and talk to your boyfriend about it. I'm sure there's something you can work out.

[Talitha]

If you don't want to, don't do it. If he dumps you because of that, then he wasn't worth your time. There are other ways to get sexual pleasure, it's not like you are totally denying him everything, geez. You just have your limits. You said you even almost argue about it sometimes? Don't be forced into anything because you fear he might leave you.
If getting head is more important to him than your feelings and your relationship together, then I'd say you should stop wasting your time with him.

If you are not willing to do it because you think it's disgusting or that i'll taste bad, you could maybe try it with flavoured condoms, just to start with. Or maybe if that's all you're comfortable with and don't want to go any further than that, then he should be happy you even agreed to try it with condoms, since I think he should understand how strongly you feel about not wanting to do it, and he should appreciate you for taking that step. But if you don't even want to at all, don't be forced into it, end of story.

[amaranthine]

I forgot about flavored condoms! That's a good idea, actually. I tried it once like that with a cola flavored one.
I prefer it without the condom, but that's me.

If you do decide to go the flavored condom route, just be advised on getting a good brand. Some of them are really thick, and he won't be able to feel much of anything, and you'll feel like you're sucking plastic wrap. Shop around!

[Talitha]

I've never really tried flavoured condoms myself, even though I did have a little issue with giving head at first too. I just grew out of thinking it's gross and things like that... I wasn't ready for it at the times that I used to find it disgusting, now, I love it lol.