[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, use it as a reference with the next job.

In-other-words, look at it as a way in which you can get your foot in the door for the 500lb job hey.

See that?

You have to let go sweet, of how's he's thinking, earing, what ever, what you can't pay or has to go to the kids, that's it end of story.

And, KNOW that 8hrs, will turn into 38hrs, got to start somewhere Cassie....

CW

[cassie66]

do you really think so? im not bright enoigh to get a 500 poound job

he took day of work so i gotta be careful

[WildChild]

Cassie you have to let go of that kind of thinking. If you believe it can't happen you will subconsciously sabotoge yourself. You can get a job a move into or work your way into a better and better position if you keep a positive attitude, always give just a little better, a liitle more and keep looking for opportuinites to learn more or get new skills.

[cassie66]

hi all ive had internet probs again only just got it working
wc i know what your saying its just been a while now since ive worked and i guess ive lost confindence
it was horrid yesterday i ignored him it was on pc games and called me a big lump! i ignored him

[cassie66]

hi all
ive not had a good day
i had the interview in the sandwich shop they said theyd let me know
i had the inspection of my home today i was a nervous wreck the agent came round 50 mins late said someone reported me saying i had 9 cats! not true i have 4 anyway agent says it was a child who rang up the owner and then the owner rang agent hence the inspection
me and it managed to polish clean hoover house and put all cats items in garage, it shouted at me so much calling em stupid, kept saying i put things in garage in wrong place etc i couldnt do anythig right, he kept going on and on name calling and saying its my fault as we shudnt have stpuid cats anyway
it put cats in his car
agent came and asked where is the cat? i said i dnt have one he didnt go upstairs just a quick look downstairs and said house smelt fresh and didnt smell of cat. even so im stull shaking now
it wnet to work he wasnt going to go i said go so he did. i just feel so stressed and im still shaking feel like crying. i love my cats
i dnt deserve to be shouted at. i spent all morning cleaning and all he did was critisize me
i feel washed out and weepy
no one has replued to my ad and i had an email from atol who are dealing with my holidat claim now they after yet more info! im so fed up i sent allcopies of my statements to prove i paid now they wnat more so i rang up bank to request yet another statement and said it would be a week and charge me £5! its not fair

[WildChild]

Is there a consumer reporting agency or licensing board you can report the travel service to? Here we have the district attorney's office of consumer fraud, they can light a fire under them and things going since no one wants to be investigated.

In one sense Rik is right, if the lease doesn't allow cats, you shouldn't have them. If you get caught it could result in your deposit being taken and you could have a bad reference. Additionally when you are ready to move, they could make it a lot harder to find an affordable place. You have to decide what is more important; you and your kids or keeping cats? It may be time to find them loving homes and reduce the expense and stress.

Can't you get your bank statement online? I can pull mine up and print it out in a minute going back 3 years. Might be worth checking out rather than paying.

Hope you get good news from the sandwich shop, it would be a good start. Keep your chin up!

[cassie66]

hi all
had nightmare few days feel well stressed
atol sent me a letter requesting more info i already sent it but i will send it all agian whn bank sends it
no i cannot request info online. ive been looking on a forum about the collaspe of atol and lots of people still waiting and fed up some wrote to local omnbusman etc im so ferd up its the insurance company that has to pay everyone the holiday was abta registered so there obliged to pay. i feel like tearing my hair out
i love cats so much and if no one sees them im ok anyway im hoping to leave here asap
im still trying to find work.

[WildChild]

Hi Cassie, I've been fighting off the flu while caring for my son who had it. He's back to school and I'm in bed taking my GSE and Grape Leaf Extract. Hope you're making progress and doing OK.

[janetfan70]

Not sure what more I can do

My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and we haven't had sex in 7 months and its driving me CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!. Over and over again I have asked my husband if there is anything that he wants me to do differently and over and over again he has told me no. I even tried coming out of the bedroom wearing nothing but his football jersey and a black thong.....nothing. I left him sexy text messages....he didn't answer them because he thought they were from his friends. I've made the first move a few times but he couldn't do anything because I was on my period. But when he wants to have sex, he tries turning me on knowing that he hasn't bathed in a few days and to me right there that is a major turn off. I have tried over and over again to talk to him about this but he wont open up to me. Right now there is so much temptation out there and I am fighting so hard not to give into it and I even told him that I cannot do this alone. Someone please tell me where I am going wrong with this before I lose my fight with temptation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[WildChild]

Wow Janet, that would be enough to drive you nuts! If you read through all 60 pages of this you'd see it's become a pretty narrowed thread, Cassie's situation is a bit different probably. You would probably get a better response if yours was a separate thread.