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Besides hitting all the good spots, I think what differentiates one woman from the next when they are performing oral is their attitude and the appearance of enjoying themselves.
I know I like receiving more when the giver is into it.
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Originally Posted by Wyldkat View Post
Question for the guys.......I have often been told i give the "best" blowjobs ever, can u tell me what defines "the best blow-job ever" as i don't particularly think i'm doin anythin different to anyone else!!!!!
OK, so, for me, I am really turned on while getting a blow job from the woman being into it, the more it seems like she's getting turned on by turning me on, the more enjoyable it is, plus of course, hitting all the ultra sensitive spots for us, sometimes my girlfriend can keep me from breathing a bit, just from what she's doing, and she cannot deep throat or anything like that, so no special skills here. I just really like it when she views it as fun, sexy, and playful more than "oh no, he wants another blow-job".. I go down on my woman a whole lot, and I love it when she's finally pushing my face away because she simply cannot take it any more because she's hardly able to breath. That itself is a big turn on to me, so I wouldn't imagine why being able to do that to your man wouldn't be a turn on to you. (as a side note) I rarely ever finish from a blow-job, its just something that I am cursed with, and I don't like to finish from one before sex anyway, I'd prefer to get a little attention to get everything working and alllll the blood in the right spots, THEN give "him" a break and go to work on my girl and then ride the sensation that I gave her from going down on her into full on sex.
In my opinion, pre-sex blow-jobs are good fun, all the way around, for both guys and girls, giving & receiving! It gets the blood and all the juices flowing, both sides get sensitized in the right way, so that when intercourse starts, everyone should be happy.
AS far as standalone oral sex for one side or the other, (I know, girls rarely get head and that's the end of it), its just really nice and quite a turn on to know (or at least think) in the back of my head "she wants me to feel really good right now, that's why she is doing this" and I can sit back, relax, and enjoy the sensations she is sending through my body.
If you look at it from this perspective instead of what the majority of women think about blow-jobs, you may want to get better at it, learn little techniques, look up some literature on the internet, and make sure your man's toes are curling by the time he wakes up for work, so that all day, in the back of his mind, while he's at work, all he can think about was how you blew his MIND this morning with a "good morning blow-job" get him fantasizing about you all day, and then HOPEFULLY he will come home and ravage your body the way you want him to. I know that would be my goal, perhaps take a long lunch if you were at home and come home for lunch and eat something tasty :P
my two cents...."We easily see what is done to us,
Before we see what we are doing to our mate!"Comment
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