[hello_pitty]

I have a question too!

Does it really start to get uncomfortable for men if they haven't cum in a few days or even a week? Like do their testes get "full" and uncomfortable?

Just curious because my husband says that's how he feels after a couple of days without sex (I tell him he can watch porn and masterbate, but he likes it when I help him )...and no he's not sexually deprived, I give it to him once I feel up to it (once or twice a week..i'm preggo right now so my sex drive is next to nil)

[Guest]

I have a question for the men....when a guy comes out of the blue (one whom you normally talk to everyday at least 4 to 5 times a day) and says he does not owe you anything and you do not owe him anything and he is not obilgated to speak with you everyday even though he has chose to in the past and he just doesn't feel like hearing voices....what does that really mean?

He's probably trying to set expectations and boundaries going forward. So that if something were to go awry, he can refer back to that one time when he said.....

Personally, I'd be skeptical of a friend who didn't think that they owed me the basic reciprocity of friendship.

[Guest]

I have a question too!

Does it really start to get uncomfortable for men if they haven't cum in a few days or even a week? Like do their testes get "full" and uncomfortable?

Just curious because my husband says that's how he feels after a couple of days without sex (I tell him he can watch porn and masterbate, but he likes it when I help him )...and no he's not sexually deprived, I give it to him once I feel up to it (once or twice a week..i'm preggo right now so my sex drive is next to nil)

Yes it gets uncomfortable. You feel pressure and warmth in that area and you can't get the idea of release out of your head.

As far as excruciating pain, no. That doesn't happen. At least it doesn't for me.

[MrsDeadCeleb]

what technique feels better for the man during sex, girl on top? what do you get more pleasure from? i'm still new to this position and i want to please my man like he pleases me. bouncing or grinding? and is it better to concentrate more on moving near the head, or all the way down?
is there any best way to ride?

[rachel801]

Be honest here. Do all men crave a variety of women? Whether it's fantasy, porn, internet cheating, or prostitutes, they emotionally "cheat" in some way on the woman they love? I may fantasize about a romance with an actor or a co-worker, but when it comes to sex, I can only think of my husband. Even when I try, I have trouble visualizing someone else.

[Guest]

what technique feels better for the man during sex, girl on top? what do you get more pleasure from? i'm still new to this position and i want to please my man like he pleases me. bouncing or grinding? and is it better to concentrate more on moving near the head, or all the way down?
is there any best way to ride?

I learned to like girl on top because that's the way she can orgasm easiest.

If i've just eaten, or if I need to pee....not so much.

My personal favorite is doggystyle. Just something about that view.

Try some variety with your movements - every guy is different. I personally like long and deep strokes. All the way in, all the way out.

[Guest]

Be honest here. Do all men crave a variety of women?

In my experience, yes. Not necessarily a variety of women, but variety in general.

[GlitterAndStuds]

If i've just eaten, or if I need to pee....not so much.

HA... that just made me giggle! There's something that's never occurred to me.

[Guest]

HA... that just made me giggle! There's something that's never occurred to me.

Haha - and you thought girls were the only ones to lie there and wonder when it's going to be over.

[Haven]

I have a question for the men....when a guy comes out of the blue (one whom you normally talk to everyday at least 4 to 5 times a day) and says he does not owe you anything and you do not owe him anything and he is not obilgated to speak with you everyday even though he has chose to in the past and he just doesn't feel like hearing voices....what does that really mean?

My guess is that he's either a bad communicator or he's unstressing about something. Every guy needs some time alone, but "I'm not obligated to speak with you every day, I don't feel like hearing voices" isn't a normal way to express that need.