[NDNICEGUY]

WOW... I'm convinced my wife would literally die if I went at her for that long. If the whole thing was over that quick, start to finish, that wouldn't too great. Maybe I have her so worked up that she can't take that much pumping...

OP, this is an old thread so hopefully you've worked it out by now, but if not.. I'll assume you've worked thru the possible Death Grip Syndrome that was mentioned earlier... But, if you haven't already, I'd be focusing on finding positions that give him the most intense feelings. For me, I can go forever in certain positions and only a couple minutes in others...Good Luck!

I would have to agree with this, I do not think most women want it to last for an hour or longer do they? I had a girlfriend tha would cum within the first 5 minutes of sex, my norm was 20-30 minutes including foreplay so brings me to the question how long do women want intercourse, actual penetration to last?

[2HOT4U]

I would like to know how loong women want actual penetration to last? I enjoy it to last for 30 minutes at a minimum even though in most cases the man does not last that long, my longest was with a man several years ago that I began to wonder if he was ever going to be done, I had an orgasm with 20 minutes or so, then he did but I was ready to have another and by the time he actually finished the second time it was well over 1 hour.

[WildChild]

This depends on circumstances. Somes short and sweet is just right. Other times nice and long is what you want.

[LanaBear]

I agree with WC, depends on the mood... Sometimes I like a quick romp in bed, other times long is nice too. I will admit, sometimes he feels like doing the energizer bunny dance and goes on way too long, but it's all a compromise. Most often anything over an hour and I'm pooped.

[qwerty989]

, i wish my gf would give me finish me orally

[Mes T]

Ugh. I really don't like prolonged thrusting, considering that's not how I personally get the most pleasure anyway. I'd say 15 minutes of actual thrusting would be perfect for me. If I could come from just the intercourse bit alone, then of course it'd be a different story.

[Texasred]

Figuring out sex in other languages/cultures is fun And strange. I speak a lot of French but don't know how to sex in it :/ Only English and Spanish, and only sexing in English right now. Monolingual relationships are easy, hehe.
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Sounds like what you need is a cunning linguist!

[broseph]

He might be masterbating too much.

Or, he might need to get his hormones check. His prolactin could be too high/low.

[hello_pitty]

I don't like it too long. My husband and I are a perfect match. He can really only last about 10-15 mins (sometimes only 5!) But I do kegals almost everyday so this could be it Although I wish we would thrust a little faster and harder, but then he'd only last about 3 mins...we even tried using a condom (i'm pregnant right now so protection isn't needed) and he STILL cums quickly...but, I really don't mind at all. If we could have 2-3 quick sessions a day, i'd be happy...but lately sex is my least interest...hopefully that goes away after I have the baby.

[Guest]

Does he remain hard all this time? Some males may not be too excited to reach the orgasm level. Is he that excited?

In any case, you can try pillow talk. Talk about something that really excites him. Talk dirty. This may revv him up enough to reach the orgasm.