[Uneeklyme]

I agree. Im sure there is so much more to the story. However, going by the original post, she doesnt want to or cant swallow and he is trying to goad her into it by belittling her and putting her down. He is comparing her to other women to cajole her into getting his way. I feel that even in an incredible relationship this is not acceptable.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I agree. Im sure there is so much more to the story. However, going by the original post, she doesnt want to or cant swallow and he is trying to goad her into it by belittling her and putting her down. He is comparing her to other women to cajole her into getting his way. I feel that even in an incredible relationship this is not acceptable.

Yes and it is difficult to (1) speculate and (2) feel for a woman whom a man all of a sudden makes a statement like that after, 10 years?

I Know how you feel there, i agree as well but that's again only on speculation isn't it unless she answers differently....

All relationships are meant to be "incredible, worked hard, intimate and well "..

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

if your man has already came then i dont really think it matters what happens to his cum aftewards!

spitting or swallowing doesnt make a difference to whether or not you give a good blowjob

As a guy, I just thought I'd chime in and disagree here. If you know your gf is going to swallow, the blowjob will be twice as good, no exaguration. If you know she's going to pull a face and spit it out, it makes the whole thing feel a bit ******...

I'd have my mobile in my hand and ring you just after every time .

[plainjane5]

Go Zwendi!

I completely agree with Zwendi. I don’t usually swallow, but with my current partner he is very understanding and I do it now more often than not. From my experience this men love the idea of females swallowing their bodily fluids. I let him know if I don’t feel like performing oral sex him on a particular day or if I don’t feel like swallowing.

He is so understanding in a lot of ways that it makes me want to please him. I like knowing that I can please him and do things that he fantasizes about. He was previously married and he often tells me of things that I make him feel that he never has before.

From both females and males that I’ve spoken to and observed men can be terrible. Whatever they are not happy with or are not getting at home they look for it else where. So as long as I like it and my partner is taken care of (as well as myself, haha) then everyone is happy.

This is just a little food for thought. If you feel uncomfortable with something that you are in you right to stand up for yourself. Stick by what you want; I assume he does the same. Try talking to him and have him put yourself in your shoes.

Communication is the key to any relationship!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

As a guy, I just thought I'd chime in and disagree here. If you know your gf is going to swallow, the blowjob will be twice as good, no exaguration. If you know she's going to pull a face and spit it out, it makes the whole thing feel a bit ******...

I'd have my mobile in my hand and ring you just after every time .

Good on ya!!!!! What agree with the husband? Sure, what it took him (10 years) to tell her that's the way "it should be done" should it? Or is that a males opinion on what is "the best" way for him?

No doubt the bj is "wicked let alone mind blowing":- Get over the spit it out thing and that you feel like ****... lol.... Wait and see what the next woman is like already.

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

It's just a shame to see good cum going to wate :P

[CHANDLERS WISH]

LMAO... learn't that one today on a thread, you'd find it...

Ahhh, sorry, that' sad....... as i said, wait to see what the next one brings.

See, your single again... You have the power to ascertain what the next one will be like, as long as you don't immediatley think with your penis ( not you personallly there, guys), suss it out ( if you want a long term again of course), talk the talk listen to the responses....

The

[CHANDLERS WISH]

LMAO... learn't that one today on a thread, you'd find it...

Ahhh, sorry, that' sad....... as i said, wait to see what the next one brings.

See, your single again... You have the power to ascertain what the next one will be like, as long as you don't immediatley think with your penis ( not you personallly there, guys), suss it out ( if you want a long term again of course), talk the talk listen to the responses....

Then you may know whether you actually, have a "live one that is into what you want" left right and well centre lol, or, um not.....

Time to enjoy and seek when ready...

CW

[CHANDLERS WISH]

For The Record

Had this computer looked at today,

Mmmm not pressing twice, sorry.....

[Just-a-regular-guy]

Yep

I agree with the above posts.... there's something about a girl swallowing... maybe it's the porn angle... the hot babe who likes to drink cum..... you see that advertised all the time... is it wrong.... is it warped??? I don't know.... everyone has an opinion.... but the truth of the matter is that for me... being just-a-regular-guy...... I would love to have my wife suck me until I'm dry...... I gladly go down on her..... the physical feeling of a COMPLETE oral experience is incredible.... WHY NOT SHARE IT WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE???