[Elidicious]

Hello,
i was just curious to know how was your first time sex.
at what age did you have it?
where ? with who? did it hurt? did you bleed a lot.

i'm 22, still virgin. and i'm unexperienced when it comes to sex. i just know what i've heard/read.

when do you think it's too soon/late to lose your virginity?

[danceintx]

I was 15, way too young in my opinion. I had a lot of older friends at that time that made fun of me about it alot. So I decided I would just pick somebody and do it. I picked this 23 year old guy who was very cute and was hitting on me at the time. So I called him, told him the plan, I went over, we did it, and that was that. I really wish I would have thought that through a little better. I don't think there is a too soon/too late to loose your virginity. I do think you should not be too young because you just don't make mature enough decisions. But waiting a long time will not hurt anything either. Just try to make sure it means something and is with someone who really cares about you.

[sapphire]

I was 16 the guy was my boyfriend who was 21. We were in his apartment in his room, when he was showing me his art work. I laid down on the bed and took off my shoes and undid my pants..... then it started to happen. It did hurt at first cos i was nervous. I didn't bleed at all, that I am aware of. His flatmate came home and walked in on us. I was mortified. :P It was all over so quick. He dumped me a few days later because he was christian and felt he was doing the wrong thing.

[sapphire]

oh yeah and it's never too late to lose your virginity. do it when the time is right. my sister is 29 and a virgin.

[LanaBear]

It's never too late. I was 15 and feel that I was too young.

The first time was rather uneventful. Dated a guy who was in the Marines for a few months. He came home on leave and we did it. I, for some reason, avoided him from that day forward. He called and called for about 3-4 months after. I was always "washing my hair"....

[RainbowDinosaurs]

He called and called for about 3-4 months after. I was always "washing my hair"....

Omfg! Best excuse ever xD
Anywho, sex.
Hmm. I'm 18 and still a virgin. Sorry for wasting your time.
But God, I can't even get two fingers in there..
So, sex, I dunno what's waitning for me in that direction o.o

[WhiteSparrows]

I was almost 21 years old when I first had sex. He was my boyfriend for 5 months at the time, we went out for 11 months, and yes it hurt quite a bit but not as bad as I expected. I didn't bleed at all. I wish I hadn't slept with him though, and I ended up regretting it because he turned out to be an immature, self-centered twat. It disgusts me that I ever did anything with him.
To answer your other question, I think any age under 17 is too young. I don't think it's ever too late to lose your virginity. Being a virgin is a good thing.

[x.st.angel.x]

I was 16, my boyfriend at the time was 17 we dated for over a year and he was a virgin too. We had sex for the first time 6 months into the relationship...it hurt a little bit, no blood. I feel i was way too young, it caused a lot of mental problems for me, i became extremely insecure! Took me a while to get back on track again

[x.st.angel.x]

Take your time, when it happens it happens. Try make it special

[WildChild]

I was 14 and like a lot of stuff you do at that age it was no big deal and done kind of heedlessly.