[ThexMrs]

I was 20 and a 1/2. Yes, the 1/2 matters, lol.

I lost it to my boyfriend at the time, Joey. He was 35.
We'd been together about 4 months.

We did it at his house on his bed.

It didn't really hurt and I didn't bleed. I'd previously used vibs.

Huge mistake giving it up to him.
After I did he suddenly wasn't available anymore.
The I love you's stopped.

There is never a too late but definitely a too young.

Danceintx: You seem to have contradicted yourself. You said that you thought that 15 was way too young but then you said that you don't think that there is a too soon or too late. I'm confused.

[ThexMrs]

I've always been really good friends with my boyfriends and typically, that first so when he changed it bothered me. It was more like I lost a friend, not a boyfriend. I almost sent him a message the other day saying, "You took my virginity, the least you could do is say hi." I never did though. It makes me laugh to think about his reaction though.

[blowfish]

i was 24 ( a bit too old for that huh) with my fiance, cause i think that will change a lot of me so i'm very carefull to do "that", it take a few month with my fiance before i ready, and its great,maybe because i'm older enough.

[Miya]

I suppose I'm the holdout here. My first time was when I got married and I was 28. It did hurt the first few times but after that my body began adjusting to him so it was good then. I don't think it's ever too late to lose your virginity and at least with me, I was able to give my hubby a one time gift of love.

[Guest]

I was 14, she was 14.

In the basement at a childhood friend's house. His parents were out of town.

We were drinking, I was nervous, but it was fun.

Man i'm feeling nostalgic now.

[Little]

I was a few weeks shy of 19 with my then-fiancé in a hotel room in Jacksonville, NC. I rode a Greyhound bus 10 hours both ways to get there for a weekend and see him for the first time since high school.
We broke up a few weeks later ... he waited 2 years to tell me why. Knowing that it wasn't because I was an inexperienced sex partner has turned my self-esteem concerning sex upside-down (in a good way.)
I'd probably take it back if I could. But what's the difference between one and another?

[GlitterAndStuds]

I was 15, he was 16. He was my first "real" boyfriend in high school and we'd been together for about a year and a half. I remember thinking about doing it just because it felt like it was.... necessary, I guess?

He never would have rushed it or anything. For some reason, I was just H3ll bent on getting it going. He was way too cautious though, haha. Every time I told him to take it easy because it would hurt a little bit, he would stop completey. He was a virgin too, so neither of us knew what we were doing.

Good guy and everything. He's still my friend, no hard feelings there at all. But it ended about 6 months later because I wasn't really feeling it for him anymore. I don't regret it or think I was too young, but I kind of wish the situation had been better.

[alicat]

I was 19 when first hubby. It didn't hurt, but was a bit uncomfortable. I did bleed a bit. I hadn't had sex for almost 10 years when I met hubby #2...lol, we've been making up for it ever since!

[Fish]

I'm 23, as is my bf, and we are both virgins. We have been dating for 3 years and originally intended on waiting until we were married...but seeing as though we won't be out of school for at least 5 years we are seriously reconsidering.

Drawing from experience on this forum and my own, don't rush it!

[AlleyWay]

I was 7 and she was 21 my first time. No just kidding LoL. My first time I skipped school to go to this girls house I didn't know anything about sex but I was trying to be so cool. I was 17 at the time. I probably lasted a good..... 2 and 3 quarter minutes LOL. I was so embarrassed she said "your a virgin huh"? I had to come clean but she was super cool and patient with me. I think it's very important to lose your virginity to somebody that cares about you.