[Calicorado83]

I wash the outer area with a mild soap like Ivory, which is lightly scented. But other than that, I don't feel a need to clean myself out. I like using wet wipes for messes. I have never used a powder, but if it helps with skin irritation after a shave, I think I might try it!

I think a douche once a month after a period is harmless. I've always thought about buying one but I am too embarrassed to have it in my hands at the store, lol.

And it is true, you don't want to go overboard with trying to make yourself smell pretty down there. If something is wrong and you wind up with an infection, it can be hard to tell. I only "pretty up" before I jump in the bed with him.