[shweedart]

Recently, I tried spitting on my bfs Willy, I saw it on porn and wondered if it worked...cos it looked rediculous to me...how on earth could that turn him on?!

Tried and tested....GENIUS!


Anyone tried it?

[anonymouswhitefemale]

The more bodily fluids the better.

Apparently makes deep throating easier too.

[rcoreyus]

Everyone likes different things. No way to guess if he likes it - you can probably tell from his reaction.

[shweedart]

It makes it amazingly easier...slippy slidey and good

[StillLearnin]

I've wanted to try this a few times, but was afraid of freaking her out.
I've also want to try pulling out and cumming on her back and stomach... Haven't brought that up yet. It would be too much too soon for her.

[stressed]

I've wanted to try this a few times, but was afraid of freaking her out.
I've also want to try pulling out and cumming on her back and stomach... Haven't brought that up yet. It would be too much too soon for her.

My bf tends to do that often but I've never asked him why he likes that. I mean, how can it be nicer to cum on someone's stomach or neck instead of inside. I assume it's something visually related but I'm just wondering here. Not that I think it's weird or bad at all, it'd just be interesting to know more about the concept.

[StillLearnin]

It's a visual thing. And it's just so hot...

But I've been wondering, and I'm not trying to hijack the thread (maybe I should start another on this?): is it disrespectful to do this (cum on body rather than inside) to your SO whom you love? is it disrespectful to ask her to swallow?

I know, the answer will be "whatever is right for you and her." But what if I want to experience these things and she won't allow me to? It's just sex. It's not like I'm physically or mentally abusing her.

[stressed]

It's a visual thing. And it's just so hot...

But I've been wondering, and I'm not trying to hijack the thread (maybe I should start another on this?): is it disrespectful to do this (cum on body rather than inside) to your SO whom you love? is it disrespectful to ask her to swallow?

I know, the answer will be "whatever is right for you and her." But what if I want to experience these things and she won't allow me to? It's just sex. It's not like I'm physically or mentally abusing her.

My bf has the same concerns as you and always ask me after if it was 'weird' or 'disrespectful', but at least to me it's totally fine, as like you said it's just sex and it has nothing to do with abusing. On the contrary, if he finds it a turn on then I like it even more for that.

I also wonder why it can pass as disrespectful or why men worry that it can be. Maybe that's why it's a turn on as it could be a subconsciously 'nasty' thing to do, and maybe some do see it like that, but I'm not sure.

As for swallowing, it cannot always be physically possible for your gf to do it (and that can lead to gagging), but I am sure that discussing this with her will get you somewhere. Even if she's against it at first, you can talk and see what it is that prevents her from trying it. I think that those who say "no" without having tried it say so mostly because of fear or repulsion to the idea, but it doesn't always mean that they would never try it. I think communication is the best way to go and gradually take it from there.

[StillLearnin]

I realized that one reason I'm afraid of trying these things with her isn't only that she'll possibly freak out, but also she'll be wondering where I learned about them: Porn.

I'd be admitting to her that I've watched porn. I still occasionally do. I'm sure that she knows, but has never wanted to know. Being with her for 25 years, and being sexually frustrated most of the time, it's obvious that I'd be using porn to keep my sexual drive under control.

I have some mpgs that I've downloaded. I just want to make a DVD some day of some of my favorite scenes to show her what I want to try with her. But then I'd be admitting that I have copies downloaded on my computer. She'd ask where did you get that, and I'll just wink and say "that doesn't matter, please watch this with me with an open mind."

I realize that real life sex isn't like porn sex. But there are some things that they do that I really want to experience with her.

[danceintx]

My bf has asked me to spit on his willy before and I haven't done it yet. I just can't bring myself to actually spit on his privates. It just feels gross. Mabye I'll get over it eventually.