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We use spit for lubrication sometimes. To me, there is something raw and primitive about spit and it turns me on. I love to do it and I love to receive it. We don't spit on each other, but we do allow spit to collect in our mouths and then drizzle it on each other's privates as you would lub. I love it and the wife has never complained ... unless arching her back is a bad thing. -
skipper thats an excellent word for it... drizzling..thats more of what it is - drizzling your saliva while up close and personal to it... spitting makes it sound like your aiming at a curb... which is the way I think future is seeing it so thinking its more vulgar than it actually is?Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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As a guy I don't like the spitting technique used in porn. My wife enjoys oral sex (too much so sometimes) and although I produce a large amount of lubricant she uses the saliva method described above which is fine because it's subtle.
On the depositing of fluids issue, her mouth is a no-go zone (she told me if did that she would kiss me and give it back. I have been trying to ever since but she knows when to stop), and I think the face is for porn only.
I let go on her breasts recently and then I licked it off which kept me going for penetration.
But I think it should be deposited inside her (unless she is not up for sex and then she just gives me a mouth/hand job and shoots it over me).
Next on the list is cleaning her after penetration.
Maybe this weekend after watching some porn with her.
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I am not offended by my boyfriends orgasm. I am arroused and excited by it. Its always a surprise, never know how much its going to be, lol... or where its going to end up its like amazing to me all the time. When he comes its usually in my mouth, but I'm in control of where I want to end up, and some time I like a little variety there. The first few times he gave me the 'warning' and I nodded and kept it in my mouth and I think from there out he knew he didn't have to worry about that... and has learned over time that I like him to come. I do. And semen is all apart of that.
I respect peoples opinion of seeing it as disrespect.. and I see how it could be used disrespectfully. But I never feel disrespected by my guy having an orgasm. Where've he does it.
Having some of his juices end up in my face, I don't see how thats much different than my juices on his face when he goes down on me... if he was like stopping to spit and wipe his mouth and was like... ick warn me when it starts feeling so good so I can move my mouth away... I'd feel really low, and hurt. I couldn't imagine him ever doing that to me nor can I imagine ever doing that to him.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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