[sourpuss]

Wow, that is wonderful news! Have a great birthday date, spoil her rotten and make her feel great, it's her day...and you'll probably reap the rewards.

Again, congratulations, sounds like things are on the right track because you two were so open and mature.

[WantingToBeWanted]

Wow, that is wonderful news! Have a great birthday date, spoil her rotten and make her feel great, it's her day...and you'll probably reap the rewards.

Again, congratulations, sounds like things are on the right track because you two were so open and mature.

Thanks! I've already got a half dozen red roses on the way to be delivered to her desk at work today.

I put on the card "You're just as wonderful and beautiful at 30 as you were at 29".

[sourpuss]

That's really sweet.

[StillLearnin]

That's great! Glad you are working through this.

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

Brainwashing or behaviour modification is maybe difficult to overcome.

I read Masters & Johnsons books on Human Sexuality and one of the things I noticed was most of the really serious sexual problems stemmed from strict religious upbringing.

"Don't touch down there, other wise you might experience something incredibly pleasureable that could lead to orgasm ..."

Or sexual trauma for rape or sexual molestation.

I think your probably feeling a little envious underneath which is understandable, its a pity you can't even up the score.

How are you going to reprogram yourself and your misses ?