[lady_Lass]

Heya, i am new to the site! I am a bit embarrassed about this, am way. . . . .

I am 18 and i have been with my boyfriend age 20 for over a year. For quite a few months i have been getting so wet which is making me loose. My boyfriend has mentioned this quite a few times as he gets really frustrated and takes forever for him to cum. Which i understand.
Sometimes he just cant go and gives up, which really puts both of us down and i feel so usless as i cant satisfy him, which makes me feel like not doing it at all. There is just no friction!

i have tryed creams and exercices and nothing seems to work.

I have read a post in here about the same thing but their partner enjoyed it!

Is there any way to make my me less wet durning sex??? and tighter?

Thx

[LanaBear]

You being wet is not making you loose, just less friction because there is so much moisture.

I doubt little can be done about the excessive wetness... Anybody?

However, many can benefit from kegel exercises. There are also a variety of 'tools' to assist as well. KegelMaster, Ben Wa Balls, etc. Strengthening pelvic muscles can do a world of good.

[lady_Lass]

But at first it is fine, it is just when i start to wett wet. I have tryed the kegel exercises but it doesnt seem to work!

You being wet is not making you loose, just less friction because there is so much moisture.

I doubt little can be done about the excessive wetness... Anybody?

However, many can benefit from kegel exercises. There are also a variety of 'tools' to assist as well. KegelMaster, Ben Wa Balls, etc. Strengthening pelvic muscles can do a world of good.

[LanaBear]

Out of curiosity, how long did you keep up with the kegel exercises?

[lady_Lass]

I started doing them quite a few months ago!

[sourpuss]

Read the birth control forum. That'll dry ya out, seems to be the common side effect for everyone.
Although, I don't see the problem with too much lubrication. Maybe if you guys just take it slower? Do you orgasm with him? Sometimes after you do, you don't produce as much lubrication. Maybe he just needs to make you cum a few times first and then do his thing.

[lady_Lass]

Yes and no! i have always found it hard to orgasm, but lately as we havn't really been enjoying it i can't, as i am always worried if he is enjoying it or not!

[StillLearnin]

I've heard about this type of problem before.

Simple solution: tell your partner to stop masturbating so much. Especially when he knows that he's going to have sex with you. Don't masturbate that day before sex.

[lady_Lass]

I've heard about this type of problem before.

Simple solution: tell your partner to stop masturbating so much. Especially when he knows that he's going to have sex with you. Don't masturbate that day before sex.

He does masturbate quite alot really, he has a really high sex drive!

[LanaBear]

sp brought up a good point, sometimes after you orgasm initially, you don't produce as much. Can you orgasm manually or orally right off the bat and wipe off with a towel then resume? And personally, after I orgasm, I'm much tighter because the muscles are contracting. You may benefit from getting there right away for a while. Just a thought.