[Mes T]

ROFL!! You girls...

I'm going to randomly start taking my clothes off later tonight and see what happens.

I don't "initiate" sex in the way that my boyfriend does (he goes for the very... direct approach). I do more subtle things, but he seems to get it.

[LanaBear]

lol - let us know how that goes tomorrow.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

haha.....

We are just naughty.. See OP? How many women actually inititate sex? And, then there's Mes who is going to do something very cheeky tonight, i can tell

[MissMeSha810]

I don't initiate sex because my husband rejects me in his sleep, NOT WHILE HE IS AWAKE, but in his sleep. If i touch him while he is sleeping, he'll pull away and say, "uuunngh stop!!! So I get mad and roll over!
He had the nerve to ask me, while he's awake, "Why don't you ever touch me while I'm sleeping?" I told him why and he said, "No I didn't, I'm sorry, I want you to wake me up and have sex." I told him no because as Miss Cat said women do not like to be rejected! When you wake up in the middle of the night and initiate, then we will! I'm sensitive, maybe men can take rejection better than a woman can. But I get upset about it so I don't try anymore....while he's asleep that is! lol

[cuff]

What I like is to know when my girlfriend is horny. Not necessarily having her try to physically initiate sex. She can look at me a certain way, playfully say something, or wear something, and I know. She knows those clues will have me physically initiating the sex. But she's already done it in her way. Which is the way I like it.

[Guest]

I don't initiate sex because my husband rejects me in his sleep, NOT WHILE HE IS AWAKE, but in his sleep. If i touch him while he is sleeping, he'll pull away and say, "uuunngh stop!!! So I get mad and roll over!
He had the nerve to ask me, while he's awake, "Why don't you ever touch me while I'm sleeping?" I told him why and he said, "No I didn't, I'm sorry, I want you to wake me up and have sex." I told him no because as Miss Cat said women do not like to be rejected! When you wake up in the middle of the night and initiate, then we will! I'm sensitive, maybe men can take rejection better than a woman can. But I get upset about it so I don't try anymore....while he's asleep that is! lol

Ok, so just because he rejects you in his sleep you don't intiate sex at all? I'm shure that if you initiated sex while he was actually awake you would never get rejected.

Men don't like to be rejected either. And I think men have a much higher sex drive than women so the chance that you would get rejected if initiating is slim to none while if a man initiates sex he is alot more likely to get rejected.

[stressed]

Men don't like to be rejected either. And I think men have a much higher sex drive than women so the chance that you would get rejected if initiating is slim to none while if a man initiates sex he is alot more likely to get rejected.

Men don't always have a higher sex driver than women, I think you need to see the larger picture. Women are being rejected all the time. It's good that you don't see how you could reject a woman, but many men do it often.

[caterpillar79]

I agree with stressed. Besides, biologically speaking, women can achieve multiple orgasms more than men could. Most men have to wait another while for next round, while women could go on and on. Seriously, look at the bigger picture, you're missing the point!

[sourpuss]

Ok, so just because he rejects you in his sleep you don't intiate sex at all? I'm shure that if you initiated sex while he was actually awake you would never get rejected.

Men don't like to be rejected either. And I think men have a much higher sex drive than women so the chance that you would get rejected if initiating is slim to none while if a man initiates sex he is alot more likely to get rejected.

You're hung up on an idea that isn't true for every male and every female. I initiate sex (or did, I should say) almost everyday. Only to get rejected. Finally I stopped.

[Rediscovered]

My sweetie always looks like such an angel to me in the morning when he's sleeping that I can't resist coming over to him and waking him up slowly under the covers...which usually leads to some wonderful lovemaking.

There have been times when I've caught a nice little smile on his face out of the corner of my eye, so I do believe he does not mind being woken up in this way.