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  • tinycit
    Member
    • Feb 2010
    • 49

    We have sex four to five times a week. But, it's not the same sex every time. We treat sex as being asymmetric. In other words, sometimes it's about getting me off and sometimes it's about getting him off. Our needs are each different and we don't expect or demand them to be the same.

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    • needanswer99
      Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 33

      we r almost 13 yrs in marriage.....and still it is asymmetric since from first day.........
      sometimes nothing in whole week....sometimes 5 times a week.....(but never 7 days a week)....haha

      but mostly 2 to 3 times a week.....my husband wants it more ..but he respects if I am not in mood....

      reason: may be same as all mention...............job, children or other engagements....these stuffs are also same important I think,,,so no regret...
      infact!! we all enjoy other engagments sometimes more than sex.....

      me and my husband discuss sometimes with each other....and still we r satisfied with number of our sex.....lols

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      • rcoreyus
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2007
        • 4369

        Once every month or two - and I'm not happy about it.

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        • stressed
          Veteran Member
          • Jun 2009
          • 1914

          Once a week...

          We're both currently on holidays and we haven't had sex in... 10 days anyway. It seems to be worse when we have free time for it lol

          But, hey, he gets his oral daily so I suppose I am to blame.

          Depressing.

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          • sourpuss
            Veteran Member
            • Dec 2006
            • 3581

            Originally posted by stressed
            Once a week...

            We're both currently on holidays and we haven't had sex in... 10 days anyway. It seems to be worse when we have free time for it lol

            But, hey, he gets his oral daily so I suppose I am to blame.

            Depressing.
            Why do you keep giving him oral when you're not getting anything in return?

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            • Fallen1
              Veteran Member
              • Oct 2007
              • 1937

              Originally posted by sourpuss
              Why do you keep giving him oral when you're not getting anything in return?
              I have to agree with Sourpuss ....... why?
              There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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              • Olympia
                Veteran Member
                • Jun 2010
                • 1049

                I would welcome more from him...
                and do not delude myself, This may or may not last...
                on average 4 to 5 times a week.
                But, we have alot of time that needed, made up. I suppose we are in Catchup' mode...

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                • cinnamonheart88
                  Member
                  • Feb 2010
                  • 39

                  it depends on work schedules and stuff but me and my boyfriend would if we saw eachother everyday may do it 5 times a week? maybe 4

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                  • janna125
                    Member
                    • May 2010
                    • 11

                    It also depends on how long you have been in the relationship. Passion does wane, but it seems there are a lot of healthy, long married couples having it at least once a week. I was married for 13 years and the last 3 years we probably had sex 5 times. We went about a year and a half without sex. Needless to say, we are divorcing. Now I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 3 months. I would have sex every day with him if I could but we can only see each other 2 or 3 times a week because of kids, jobs and all. We do have sex every time we see each other.

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                    • ziggy39
                      Junior Member
                      • Feb 2009
                      • 8

                      WTF??? To my wife sex seems like a job, a job she doesn't like very much. I'm lucky if we have sex once a month.

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