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  • kim225
    Member
    • Dec 2009
    • 17

    my husband and i been together for 12 years we have sex like on the weekend it is me not him how do i get in the mood to have sex everyday

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    • foxdana
      Member
      • Sep 2010
      • 72

      Originally posted by kim225
      my husband and i been together for 12 years we have sex like on the weekend it is me not him how do i get in the mood to have sex everyday
      I find the more I do it, the more I want it!! So maybe make yourself do it everyday for a couple of weeks and see if that kick starts something?!?!

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      • Kaystrwbry42
        Member
        • Jan 2009
        • 32

        I love it but my body can't handle having it everyday. My skin can get irritated even with lots of lube. So we have it about every other day, been together for a year. Also I know its weird to start the convo with friends about sex but a few drinks in ya and its a fun and funny conversation sometimes. I suggest starting it.

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        • foxdana
          Member
          • Sep 2010
          • 72

          Originally posted by Kaystrwbry42
          I love it but my body can't handle having it everyday. My skin can get irritated even with lots of lube. So we have it about every other day, been together for a year. Also I know its weird to start the convo with friends about sex but a few drinks in ya and its a fun and funny conversation sometimes. I suggest starting it.
          And you can get some new and interseting ideas that way too!!!

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          • rtv99
            Member
            • Jul 2010
            • 15

            2-3 times a month but only on the week she's ovulating. I've found that she doesn't have an over high sex drive (three kids under 5) and it's best to strike when the gettins good. Makes for a less stressful situation and when it does happen it's epic! I'd like it more, but since making love begins in the mind removing stress from the situation makes it so much better. She knows i want it more so as long as she's not sweating it mentally she's more able to enjoy it when her body is ready. Sometimes she may not think she wants it but if i work around her bodies clock she's thanking me when we're out of breath and covered in sweat.

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            • Guest

              I was married for 7 years and we had sex maybe once a year or twice a year. It was awful. I hate him so much still!!

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              • avelana44
                Junior Member
                • Sep 2010
                • 6

                My boyfriend and I used to have sex at least once a day, or most days of the week. Sometimes twice a day. But lately it's slowed down due to personal reasons. We're lucky if we do it once or twice a month. But like I said it's due to more personal and physiological reasons. Not due to boredom or anything else ;/

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                • cinidpeps
                  Junior Member
                  • Sep 2010
                  • 1

                  Well.. ive been with my boyfriend now for just over a year and we tend to have it once a week maybe twice. We only see each other at the weekeends and because i work days and he works nights its really difficult to find the time. I think as long as you are still spending time together and doing things with just the two of you i wouldnt say that there is too much of a problem to be honest.

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                  • CharlesV
                    Member
                    • Aug 2010
                    • 43

                    First 3 years 1-3 times a day
                    4-10 years Daily
                    10+ years 3 times a week.

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                    • Texasred
                      Veteran Member
                      • Oct 2009
                      • 1216

                      Originally posted by foxdana
                      I find the more I do it, the more I want it!!
                      No question about it, that is true! My gfr and I do it every day we're together, and as often as we have time for on those days!
                      And we're both over 50...

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