[kieran]

i love going down on my wife she loves me licking her out you should tell your fella how you feel
bye the way bye he must be mad not to go down on you, you look so sexy.

[rcoreyus]

Problem is that men are all different. In my case I'd love it if my wife asked me to do something new.

So the best way to bring new elements to the bedroom is Just ask and the guys don't think the girl us oddfor doing this? Well I'll give it a try.

[heatherswar]

Texas and kieran...thank you. I certainly hope that he does fantasize about me just sometimes get overwhelmed but the hotness of the porn stars on the computer so I often am concerned that he's thinking of them which makes me a little shy about trying new things and being adventurous. I have this weekend off (finally a weekend off!!!) So I'll try to make some of the suggestions here become a reality. : )

[heatherswar]

Oh and another question... I have a much much much higher sex drive then him ie if we could I would have sex multiple times a day, everyday. Once I get the guts to ask about bringing more to the bedroom, like oral for myself, is it wrong to ask for him to pleasure me even if he doesn't want to have sex??? I don't want to be selfish, I just seem to want sex more then him but I do understand he might not always be "up" for the task.

[rcoreyus]

Just my $.02 but I think it is always fine to ask your partner for sexual favors as long as you are willing to provide them in return when they ask.

I think your best bet is to ask and see how he reacts. He may be very happy to do what you want - some men (and women) are naturally a bit submissive in the bedroom and like to be told what to do.

[kieran]

Oh and another question... I have a much much much higher sex drive then him ie if we could I would have sex multiple times a day, everyday. Once I get the guts to ask about bringing more to the bedroom, like oral for myself, is it wrong to ask for him to pleasure me even if he doesn't want to have sex??? I don't want to be selfish, I just seem to want sex more then him but I do understand he might not always be "up" for the task.

you seem like a girl that i would love to have in bed everyday, theres nothing wrong
with a women wanting a good seeing two 3 or 4 times a day love you already.

[heatherswar]

rcoreyus...I have no problem returning the favor, in fact, I often times will ask him if he wants a blow job or I let him know how I have been thinking about giving him one the second he walks through the door. So no I don't have a problem in any way returning the favor.
Kieran... I am definately the kind of girl that would LOVE multiple times in a single day but never get it... trying to work him and get him "up" for the task...one way or another...sex or oral. I am gonna test my insecurities and give it ago tonight.
Wish me luck hopefully I won't get turned down. : )

[kieran]

best of luck anyway on tonight still think he must be mad not to be turn on to bring you
to the bedroom or sitting room and giving you a seeing two 2 or 3 times a day i would

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[rcoreyus]

Tell us how it went. If he turns you down, please slap him silly for all of us who's SOs aren't willing to make any effort at all in the bedroom .

[heatherswar]

Lol...Yep, got turned down not sure why though...lol. I even sent a text early in the day (like I sometimes do) asking how a blow job sounds. He said he was in but as soon as I tried "making my moves" all he wanted to do was watch, of all things, Pawn Stars and American Pickers on the Discovery Channel. I guess I don't compare to a bunch of fat men buying old stuff. Just kidding, but kinda not . Oh well, nothing new. Guess not all gentlemen out there appreciate a frickin horny lady at home.