[kieran]

tell you the truth if he is not going to give you one what will it be like
when ye marry, nothing wrong with been a frickin horny lady most men would die for one

[heatherswar]

Well let's keep our fingers crossed that that won't be the case. I'm just gonna hold out til he's desperate and begging. Maybe that'll change his tune. Lol.

[kieran]

you can try that alright heatherswar but how long can you go without it
as you say you are a frickin horny lady

maybe dress sexy around the house and tease him for a while that might work
or maybe he is looking at to many blue movies, theres something wrong if a women
asked a man for a blowjob and he turns it down because you look a find bird heatherswar
a bird is what we call a women here in ireland

[heatherswar]

Thank you. Yeah not sure what's going on with him. I know He is almost 30 but I didn't think that a guys sex drive depletes that early. We'll see What happens this week end. I have it off so I am going to make sure the house is perfectly cleaned (maybe a little yard work if its not too hot out) so that he doesnt have to worry about a thing at home and then make something yummy for dinner then talk to him. Cuz yeah I'm that bad on the eyes and shoot, how many guys can honestly say that their fiance/wife/girlfriend is ready at practically a moments notice?? Lol.

[kieran]

No theres not many ready at a moments notice, my wife doesn't be, thats what i like about you
your any mans dream anyone would think i am trying to charm you if they read this better not let the wife see this.
anyway chat you later and see how you got on heatherswar its late here in ireland. theres no chance of me getting a blowjob tonight
of the wife shes in dreamland chat you soon.

[Day Tripper]

Yeah not sure what's going on with him. I know He is almost 30 but I didn't think that a guys sex drive depletes that early.

You are quite correct. HW, it's one of four things going on: (1) he has bouts of ED (erectile disfunction) and he's hesitant because he might not be able to perform, but, I doubt this; (2) he's masturbating two times a day everyday; (3) he's got something else on the side; and (4) he's just not into you (no chemistry). If it's #1, you would probably know this. If it's #2, then you guys need to talk and resolve it. If it's 3 and/or 4, than show him the door, don't pass go, don't collect $200. Don't waste your time unless he's really something special. This is from a man's point of view. At 30, he should be ready 5 times per week - easy - with a couple of marathons thrown in for good measure (LOL).

Day Tripper

[WildChild]

nothing wrong with been a frickin horny lady most men would die for one

No they wouldn't. Not based on the experiences of many women here. Many men THINK they would but if they actually get a woman in their life who really enjoys sex and wants them, they either get lazy, insecure or lose interest. I've dealt with this phenomenon more than once or twice.

[rcoreyus]

Lol...Yep, got turned down not sure why though...lol. .

Argh! Too bad I can't use bad language on this forum, but thats really annoying. There are so many people on this forum (both genders) who are willing to do anything for their partners - and get nothing in return. Doesn't he realize how lucky he is to have a beautiful sexy woman who wants him?

Seriously though this is a real problem. I think its always bad to turn your partner down for sex unless you are really not physically up to it at that time (exhausted, sick, etc). (this assumes that the reciprocate of course). Turning you down to watch TV just isn't right. This suggests that he has a very low interest in sex. You've describe yourself as a frickin horny lady. This could become a serious problem in the future.

I've posted this many times, but sine you joined fairly recently, I'll reiterate. I met my wife about 30 years ago. We got along great - except she seemed to have little interest in sex. I hoped and expected it would improve with time and after we were married. It didn't. Now I'm in a relationship where sex is a once a month or two event (and usually not much of an event even then). I love her - but I can't help resenting that I have spent most of my life nearly celibate.

Once you are in a long term relationship it is very difficult to leave because of a poor sex life. It also is very difficult to change long term habits. I think you REALLY need to sort this out now, before you get married. I know you love him - but this sort of thing can result in lasting resentment.

[rcoreyus]

Its hard to know if its "most" or "many". Certainly there are men who appreciate a passionate woman. Sadly there are some who don't. The same of course applies with the genders reversed. I just wish people could do a better job of finding appropriate partners before they settle down in permanent relationships.

No they wouldn't. Not based on the experiences of many women here. Many men THINK they would but if they actually get a woman in their life who really enjoys sex and wants them, they either get lazy, insecure or lose interest. I've dealt with this phenomenon more than once or twice.

[kieran]

No they wouldn't. Not based on the experiences of many women here. Many men THINK they would but if they actually get a woman in their life who really enjoys sex and wants them, they either get lazy, insecure or lose interest. I've dealt with this phenomenon more than once or twice.

well theres something wrong heatherswar seems a lovely sexy young women and her husband
to be at 30 won't have sex with her. i am 37 years old 15 years married and would love a women
that would like to have sex twice a day. i still have sex about 4 or 5 times a week with my wife
and thats with 3 kids . if he doesn't give it to her Heatherswar should go and get a man who will
make love to her anytime she wants it you are only young once.

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