[Guest]

I read the last couple of lines, and the whole thing and am still not understanding why you are asking, which in your situation I think is just as important as the question itself. In full disclosure I am in my early 30's (and in a long term relationship so my answers would by hypothetical as well.) I'd be thrown off by the lack of oral, for one. I could live without it personally, and actually prefer touches and fingering to oral, but I do love to be licked on... a man that had an aversion to it would make me not feel as beautiful and desired as a man that enjoyed doing it, that much is certain. As far as the size goes, you like the mass majority of other men in the world are around 5 inches... thats an average size, thats not a 'small' size.

My boyfriend is larger than average, and I could be satisfied with about a 1/3 of his penis... seriously. And that being said when I am on top of him I generally only utililize that upper third.. in other words, no... I don't think 5 inches would be unsatisfactory in any way shape or form. 2 or 3 inches is enough to reach my personal gspot, and a finger is plenty to get me off so I think a 4-5 inch penis would be more than adequate.

I'm a bit confused. Everyone talks about how 5" is average or "not small"...but when push comes to shove, the numbers don't seem to add up. If you ask a man, no man has less than 8 inch penis - personally I've got 18 inches myself - and if you ask the women, all the women claim their SO's have "above average" sized members.

Even when people cite porno videos, the textbook response is "of course those guys are hung, they're porn starts...normal people have smaller penises". But even then, almost every poster on this forum posts about their (or their man's) dong being "above average" whether the poster perceives it to be above average or not.
Its almost like saying the average of the following series of numbers is 5:

7 8 9 8 7 7 7 8 7

[kristalyn_04]

^ ... and the point of this thread is to say that size doesn't matter. Whether or not people are exaggerating doesn't matter, what the actual average is doesn't matter. I don't care about size, the majority of people on this forum don't care about size, neither should anyone else... exaggeration or not. People that care about their own size (breasts or penis) is a result of insecurity, and people that care about someone else's size is superficial.

[jns]

Everyone talks about how 5" is average or "not small"...but when push comes to shove, the numbers don't seem to add up. If you ask a man, no man has less than 8 inch penis - personally I've got 18 inches myself - and if you ask the women, all the women claim their SO's have "above average" sized members.

I do not have nor have I ever had a penis of 8 inches or greater, nor one even of 7 inches. When I was younger and not fat, I had about 6 inches. Now I probably have about 5 working inches, maybe less.

[Master Bruh]

I'm a bit confused. Everyone talks about how 5" is average or "not small"...but when push comes to shove, the numbers don't seem to add up. If you ask a man, no man has less than 8 inch penis - personally I've got 18 inches myself - and if you ask the women, all the women claim their SO's have "above average" sized members.

Even when people cite porno videos, the textbook response is "of course those guys are hung, they're porn starts...normal people have smaller penises". But even then, almost every poster on this forum posts about their (or their man's) dong being "above average" whether the poster perceives it to be above average or not.
Its almost like saying the average of the following series of numbers is 5:

7 8 9 8 7 7 7 8 7

I agree. I scanned over some random pages on here and noticed that a well. The average is 5..BUT I just happen to be with a bruh whos above average. It might be that they themselves arent a fan of having an "average" bruh just like bruhs arent a fan of being average. Average has come to be a negative word into days society and well societies of old. Its that...ok, its that your not completely awful but your not really special either. Although I do question how many lady bruhs actually know for a fact how big their bruhs are. Cause like so many say brah(people) exaggerate. Im a fisherbruh and I know that 2lb bass can go from 3-5 depending on how big that other bruhs fish was.
So how many lady bruhs have themselves measured their bruhs or just took their word for it?
Also can you say that if you see a bigger penis and smaller penis the bigger one(hopefully not longer then your arm) doesnt turn you on more?

Master Bruh has Spoken.....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Master Bruh has Spoken.....

? I hope that is your sense of humor.......

See Tex kindly started this thread because we are tired of hearing, oh I am small...poor me, when the inadequacy of being able to please a woman in its entirety learning the art of bringing a woman to orgasm, learning the art of deep soulful connection, brings about the thread to start with...

Ladies am I too small?

We do not care, we want a respectful lover, an attentive lover, a good lover, and we want an exciting lover,adventurous lover in which we therefore will give back ten fold.

Only children talk to others about the size of their mens penis.

Only superficial people measure their man to see if he has an adequate size...

Learn what we are after and Tex's initial first post will make perfect sense in my opinion.


The difference is large sometimes is awkward, can hurt in some positions, can hurt because a woman is small there, that is a different issue.

As for boobs, that is more to do with as HD stated, insecurity...as is penis size, both insecurity....



CW

[ItsASecret]

Also can you say that if you see a bigger penis and smaller penis the bigger one(hopefully not longer then your arm) doesnt turn you on more?

I for one and I am a woman, not a lady-bruh, can say that a larger penis by no means more attractive. In fact I really do not like the look of the penis, it simply is not something of beauty. However if my man has got an erection, and he is above average because I can judge distances due to learning in grade school, and it is because of me then I do quite enjoy it. I do not get all drooly or an uncontrollable desire for it but I very much enjoy seeing him aroused with his larger penis to show it. If he was 5 inches it would not matter, a penis is a penis. It functions, it does it's job of making me feel good, that is all that matters.

[Master Bruh]

First...smh I type out a nice little piece that when I posted it went to another page where it says post and all my stuff was gone...*sad face*

I for one and I am a woman, not a lady-bruh

LMAO that made my morning, someone actually said "lady-bruh"

? I hope that is your sense of humor.......

Hey hey now no disrespect ma'dam head lady bruh in charge. Was simply saying I have made my comments.

and he is above average because I can judge distances due to learning in grade school

Hmm that might be more of a special skill as opposed to grade school learning, most brahs(people) I know cant tell an objects size exactly by just looking at it say a 5,6 or 7 inches. Now I havent seen to many penises(straight) in my day but I do know a thing or two about carpentry and measurements arent always what they appear.

and back to Chandler..Now to say that "we" Im assuming you mean a large portion of women only think and want those mentioned above(respectful, attentive...) you are giving the human race far to much credit. Some of our first impressions of brahs are based strictly on superficial thoughts since thats all we have to go on. Brahs over 40 still talk about penis size and breast size, its that general O hey we all have an opinion about this even if its sometimes a conforming one. Just about everyone(couldnt find a word for this sadly lol) is insecure(minus Master Bruh of course) and this is just one of those insecure things that run rampant like weight or pimples. This just happens to pertain to a more cherished thing..sex. Brahs still break up over these things as some of these post when brahs cant find a way around it(or choose not too) they just opt out even if said bruh is great in all these other ways.

This all comes down to me just wanting to have a interesting discussion since I am new and a lot of people do come here for that very reason to discuss penis and breast size and dont all have the same view sometimes.

Master Bruh has Spoken.....(Once again no disrespect ma'dam head lady bruh in charge)

[WildChild]

Just as many women need constant reassurance that the man in their life finds them attractive, many men seem to need assurance that their penis is large enough. Interestingly when I was younger I never had a man comment on the size of his penis, aside from one who really was huge and concerned that wouldn't scare me away. As I've gotten older and gotten back into the world of being single, every man I've been with (granted that isn't a large number) has commented that his penis is on the smaller side and seems to need assurance that it is enough. It seems that porn and the media is succeeding in making men as body insecure as woman have been made to be.

At this rate we can forget sex I guess because everyone will be so busy being insecure and hiding out so no one will see their pathetic body.

[pretzel]

At this rate we can forget sex I guess because everyone will be so busy being insecure and hiding out so no one will see their pathetic body.

You've been talking to my wife, haven't you

I'll leave now.

[Texinator]

As far as I'm concerned, if someone has a problem with my penis size, they can go perform a certain sexual activity on themselves.

Though unless someone explicitly states that they have a problem - and nobody has ever made a negative comment - I'm also not going to worry that I might be inadequate.