[baddabing]

It isnt about the size its about what u can and cant do with it.....point blank

This old chestnut again?

You can have both, ability & a good size match
People always say it's what you do with it, of course it is but the alternative to a small penis attached to a loving, giving & talented man is a large penis attached to an uncaring, selfish man conveniently forgetting the point that a larger penis can just as easily come with a talented owner therefore providing the best of both worlds. In summary size matters.

A larger penis will provide larger stroke lengths & a thicker penis will provide greater fiction in the first third of the vagina.

Of course what considered large is relative with medium being large for a smaller woman & extra-large being large for the bigger woman and of course everything in-between, but all things being equal - relationship quality, being loving, giving in the bedroom with ability a penis that is large relative to the woman can & will provide greater sensation.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

In theory...

But then explain to me why when I was younger, the best lover I ever had, had a small one , only he knew the art of sensuality, foreplay and he freaked at the way I jumped him?

And, then the man whom as you say was ego maniac, who had a thick long one, walked naked, like what you see, added his own sensual, and it was also great, but I never jumped him, I just enjoyed it...

Why is that?

People know me, I won't talk about my current but let's just say he rocks my world full stop...

But only because he knows who he is, what he has, is loved and therefore, knows how to use it...

Sorry ... I don't agree totally in that...

CW

[Maximus]

CaucasionGuy

no man will ever see this as being small....

Huh....actually I do !!!!
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Just kidding

CaucasianGuy: All women in this forum will tell you that you are just fine, and better of learning/developing other skills and areas, such as confidence, emotional intelligence, and foreplays.

[baddabing]

In theory...

But then explain to me why when I was younger,
CW

Different time in your life? your frame of mind was right? the flush & lust of first love? loads of emotional reasons? You could have behaved the same way or even more so if he was larger.

But it does prove there is far more at work than just size, but like I said - all other things being equal... size matters

[Guest]

I find it interesting that a man says size matters, only to you perhaps?, when every woman thus far says the opposite. Hmm...

Everyone is welcome to their own opinion and I fully support baddabing and he having his own opinion, I just find it to be interesting....

[Ashlee T.]

Size matters to some. Size does not matter to others. What category you fall into, doesn't make you right or wrong. It just makes you you. Problem solved.

[stressed]

It's only insecure men who worry about their penis size (they can be insecure because of a thousand different reasons). Even if all women they sleep with tell them otherwise, unless they are happy with what they have they can never believe it.

[Hopeless Dork]

I think the reason so many people give the example of an average penis being attached to a man that knows his way around a womans body, even a small penis being attached to same trumps large penis attached to a man with no 'attention to detail' when it comes to love making is because its... a stereotype that guys with large penises just show up to bed... and while stereotypes are not always true, obviously not... they are what they are for a reason.

I think its largely due to how much weight men put on the size of their penis... like its the be all end all of whether or not they will be a good lover... therefore a lot of larger guys think ... 'what? I've got 8 inches... I'm a stud, what else do I possibly need to know to make a woman happy?'.

There are always exceptions, my boyfriend is on the larger side of the penis size spectrum and has taken the time to learn what my body enjoys and how to pleasure me.

But take a browse for an example of what I mean at something as silly as a craigslists encounters listing... there are guys that will write a paragraph about all the things they will do to a woman with NO mention of their size ... and other guys that list their size and NO other information lol... thats pretty much the gist of the men so many women encounter. Big, thinking thats it,, thats all it will take to please a woman... and an adventerous average/smaller side sized.

I know that both can co-exsist... I'm with that unicorn But it is a common issue women deal with and it all stems from how much focus guys put on their own penis size.

[ItsASecret]

A larger penis will provide larger stroke lengths & a thicker penis will provide greater fiction in the first third of the vagina.

Semantics? Yeah a larger penis covers more surface area, congrats to the guys who can figure that one out. I am with a larger man (7.5in), it actually hurts quite often even if he is being caring and attentive. It does not hurt because he is a dbag pounding 50 reps a minute like some wanna-be porn stud, but because his natural size covers too much surface area. We have to go slower because of that. A lot of guys will play out the "I must be a stud cause I am packing some major heat down below ooooohhhh yyyeeeaaahh"....well those guys are not studs because of that. A big ego is fine if it is kept in check with reality. If a woman says it does not matter it is best to believe her. She is the one that is going to be feeling the size, and if she really does not care for size and instead the overall feeling then take her word for it. The sex can still end up sweaty and very good regardless of how much a guy wants to believe that size matters.

[WildChild]

The whole penis size thing seems to be predominately a male thing. There are a few women who are really concerned with it but not the majority by any means.

What it really comes down to, is fit. That is not just physical. What is the sexual interaction about? Is it just getting off? Using each other to get to orgasm? That's fine if both understand that is what it's about. Is it about something deeper? More about relationship and connection?

There are so many factors that come into play to make the physical connection really good or a flop. At some point there is also the simple matter of what fits. There is an average size for vaginas just as there is for penises. Realistically a woman with a smaller than average vagina, paired with a larger than average man, could be a challenge. A larger than average woman paired with a smaller than average man could also be a challenge. Then you have to factor in other considerations, some women really want pentrative sex, it brings them their most intense experience. There are other women who truly don't care if they ever have their lover's penis inside them. There are men who delight in the build up (they are the wise ones IMO) and others who always just want to get down to it (poor conditioning). Best of all, to me, is a mix.

It isn't either's size so much as finding the person that is compatible with your needs and desires. There is no one size fits all.