[LanaBear]

Yeah... Chloe, I'm not touching that one. Your particular situation, that is... that's a conversation for another thread.

Yeah, Chloe enlightened us with an update to her other thread. Her posts were very detailed and as a result ended up being edited to a pretty big extent and the thread was then closed.

If you care to read, here you go.

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/32686-my-boyfriend-lost-his-confidence-after-losing-fight-its-affecting-our-sex-life-8.html

[Guest]

. It may in many ways be detrimental, because in the event you experience a large man, and it turns out he's a complete jerk, as with my experience, you may end up being destined comparing all your subsequent sexual experiences to "that guy". I really hope that's not the case for myself.

so whats better? a jerk with an 8-inch beatstick or a nice guy with an average pecker?

[WildChild]

so whats better? a jerk with an 8-inch beatstick or a nice guy with an average pecker?

Well we can't answer for Chloe who was apparently making an elaborate build up to promote a particular genre of porn, but speaking for myself, I've got the nice (wonderful) guy who is average and wouldn't trade for all the jerks in world regardless of their size. An affectionate, caring man, who actually enjoys pleasuring a woman is a treasure.

[Guest]

"An affectionate, caring man, who actually enjoys pleasuring a woman is a treasure" It's nice to be appreciated. I know the woman I am crazy about feels this way about me.

Thanks WC !

It's never about the size of the boat but rather the motion in the ocean.

[CaucasianGuy]

Quick personal question... just to see what woman say.

Im 19, and have low self esteem and self confidence. I am trying to find alot of good ways to help my self esteem issues. But i just wanted to see what woman thought in all honesty, because i feel like so many lie to a guy's face in reality just to save his feelings or his ego. I am 5 and 11/16 inches erect length, and 4 in a half inches girth. I was wondering if this is a good size for a woman, and if this would be considered, smaller or normal size. I know size doesnt matter in a relationship, and i honestly do look for alot more when im a relationship. But that doesnt totally stop me from thinking about it. It still effects my self esteem and confidence. I recently got dumped after an 8 month relationship, and the girl never fully told me why she broke up wit me. Most i got out of it was that her life was just too busy, but idk if that was really the only reason. But anyway, I have been pretty depressed ever since, cuz i cared about this girl, and im trying to raise my confidence and move on. Im still a virgin as you probably guessed, and worried if im not good enough in all honesty. Kindof cant help it sometimes. It haunts me. Thank you all greatly for your info. I get criticized on the mens sites ive been to, and think a woman's perspective would truly help out.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

CaucasionGuy

Please look up in Advanced Search, (top right hand corner) penis size...

Firstly there are so many threads on it, and the answers are the same....

Secondly, 5 and 11/16 inches? so nearly or over 6 with a 4 and a half inch girth in my opinion, no man will ever see this as being small....

I hope you understand that..

Best wishes, look forward to you contributing to other problems on this forum or questions.


CW

[Guest]

CaucasionGuy,

Your "problem" has NOTHING to do with (IMO) your "size" but rather your choice in women.

I hope the Advanced Search recommended by CW helps you realize this.

A few things to consider; 1) It's never been about the size of the boat but rather the motion in the ocean or the skills of the captain, and 2) If this subject becomes an issue then that should be a signal, to you, that it's time for you to move on, and 3) Don't spend time worrying about things you can't control...instead focus that time and energy on things you can like learning to be the very best lover that you can, whether you are a virgin or not....read!

There is a very good thread on books in this forum as well. I think you can find it by doing an Advanced Search for books or maybe books on sex.

A book I frequently recommend is titled She Comes First by Ian Kerner Ph.D You can learn alot from this one book and so can men with previous experience.

[baddabing]

The old 'not the size of the boat but rather the motion in the ocean' phrase assumes that larger men have no skill & doesn't really let on that an above average penis with a talented & giving owner can be the best of both worlds.

Anyway, you can't alter what you've got so its more important to not let it become an issue because that would more corrosive to any relationship or even just your performance than anything else. The average is supposed to be 5.5 to 6.2 depending which survey you read - so you have no worries at all. Go forth & multiply (but only when you & a partner are ready to of course, but until then have fun - and give fun)

[waya]

Women are different sizes there, too. So, IMO, size does matter but it's more about compatibility. Bigger is not always better. You sound like a good size to me.

[THEMRS**]

It isnt about the size its about what u can and cant do with it.....point blank