[Guest]

Exactly.....

[kristalyn_04]

Well, it was originally intended to be the "final word", and personally I think what Tex said in the original post is still right on. But despite that people still have insecurities and differing opinions, so the debate continues. Sigh...

[Guest]

Well, it's just so reassuring of you ladies to make me feel a complete man, as my penis is only one inch long. You're all so lovely. xxxxxxxxxxxx

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, it's just so reassuring of you ladies to make me feel a complete man, as my penis is only one inch long. You're all so lovely. xxxxxxxxxxxx

It's the kissing Thomas that matters you know that

[Maximus]

It's really easy.

Breast size doesn't matter. Why should it? Does it serve any function? No. Breasts are breasts, and they're all the best thing since sliced bread. You can flash yours at anyone and get an excited reaction. ...and if there isn't an excited reaction, he's either gay or impotent. Simple as that.

Penis size doesn't matter. Why should it? A man with a 5 inch penis can please a woman just as well as one with a 7 inch penis. Even if he needed tweezers to shake after peeing, he could still use his hands and tongue to please her; in fact, he could probably do a better job than a dude who is dragging a 12 incher across the floor.

That's not to say that there aren't people out there for whom breast or penis size doesn't matter. But who gives a rat's rectum what they think. They're the same kind who believe a man making $100,000 a year is twice as good as the one making $50,000 or that a 25 year old woman is twice as hot as a 50 year old. In other words, they're idiots.

After Kristalyn comment, I went back in time, and revisited this particular post.
Yes, Tex gave a good summary.
Including his distinct sense of humour

[lillyrose]

I love the sentiment of the OP, but it's not a reality for everyone. A lot of men have a preference when it comes to what they find attractive. That doesn't mean they'll turn someone who doesn't fit that ideal down, but it's still there. I'm a full 34A and I'm well aware that some men consider that to be embarrassingly small. I happen to love them though. I don't wear push up bras (FALSE ADVERTISING! lol) I know my current boyfriends prefers B cups and it gets me down sometimes, but oh well. There's nothing I can do about it. I'm certainly not going to have surgery.

[jns]

I love the sentiment of the OP, but it's not a reality for everyone. A lot of men have a preference when it comes to what they find attractive. That doesn't mean they'll turn someone who doesn't fit that ideal down, but it's still there. I'm a full 34A and I'm well aware that some men consider that to be embarrassingly small. I happen to love them though. I don't wear push up bras (FALSE ADVERTISING! lol) I know my current boyfriends prefers B cups and it gets me down sometimes, but oh well. There's nothing I can do about it. I'm certainly not going to have surgery.

34As are perfect. Larger sizes are possible naturally during pregnancy and nursing.

[Guest]

You're right not to feel you're too small Lilyrose. You're about the size of my g/f and she is very feminine and has lovely breasts. You'll find the vast majority of men would prefer natural small breasts in their woman than larger enhanced ones. Parygal, I don't have 8 inches (not going to say what mine is -I only tell friends that kind of info, and only if they ask) But mine has fathered two children and has satisfied all my g/fs to date. When I am on a nudist beach I certainly do not feel inadequate.

[Texinator]

I love the sentiment of the OP, but it's not a reality for everyone. A lot of men have a preference when it comes to what they find attractive.

Everyone has a preference to a certain degree, but it is much they matter that counts. A man might prefer C cups but be perfectly happy if his girlfriend is an A. Liking one thing best doesn't automatically translate into disliking everything else. On the other hand, the man might wish his girlfriend were a C, and then he's getting dangerously close to shallow country. If it goes so far that he basis his dating decisions on breast size, then he's a with a personality as deep as a kiddy pool.

The same goes for the size queens that try to argue a wider girth or a longer shaft make a big difference in how much they enjoy sex. How about I turn it around and say that maybe their vagina is too large and loose? But at least they can do kegel exercises to strengthen their vaginal muscles, to the point of being able to put even a small penis in a death grip. Problem solved.

I don't buy into the relativist approach that this is all just a matter of opinion and there is no right and wrong. How about we use something other than size as an example, say race? If a white man preferred white women to the point where he wished his black girlfriend were white or he refused to date anything but white women, people would write him off as a racist pig, and rightly so.

Basing the value of a person on an inconsequential attribute over which they have no control is nothing but a steaming pile of cow manure.

[Rediscovered]

And yet another post to this thread, lol~

As a lover of karezza/tantra lovemaking, I have come to realize the true deliciousness of our parts is from the *energy* that emits from them, not their size.

In karezza, a woman's positive pole (energy-producing) is her breasts. The energy is there no matter the size. When a man makes love to a woman who has learned to tune into her energy circle, he can just touch her nipples and feel the electric current go straight to his penis (this has happened to me and my lover many times. I have read stories of women who have had their breasts removed due to cancer and yet both partners can still feel the energy (yin) from the spot, even though the breast is not there.

In karezza, a man's positive pole is his penis. When a man learns to make love in a conscious way, the woman will find the penis emits its delicious energy whether hard or soft. A woman can feel the pulsations *best* when the penis is lying still inside the vagina (little or no movement). Fast, rough friction takes those beautiful sensations away (and also causes the vagina to constrict rather than relax and fully accept the man). The size of the penis is unimportant because as long as the penis is used by the man in a loving, conscious way, it has the ability to transfer the energy (yang) the woman so desires.

I do believe the porn industry has convinced many people that bigger is better (whether man or woman) and as someone who engages in gentle, slow tantric lovemaking, to watch a porn video (for me) looks like people just banging parts around with no regard nor knowledge of how wonderful sex can *really* feel when done consciously. Our bodies can do and feel so much more~