[CHANDLERS WISH]

Whoa everyone... The last thing we want is to get to the point where this thread has to be closed.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and it doesn't need to turn into an arguement..

Thank you.

Some women just can't have a satisfying sex life with a man with a small penis. It's not even about what turns the person on, it's about what they feel.

I understand what you are saying, in as much as they may have strong feelings for this man but they can not entertain moulding to his size, in order to feel it.. Because, honestly that is a given, we were made that way, not many people honestly know the true word of love and the true act of intimacy, sex is sex and lust is lust...

There are plenty of things that can be done to improve one's sex life, small penis or not.

I remember (and CW rarely talks about her own experiences) going out with a guy when I was in my 20's.. He performed oral for ages and ages, I have no idea what got into me? Back then.. I started raging seriously, and moved and jumped right on top of him and it was awesome.... He had a size 4, established after when I saw it Well I didn't get a chance to before hand... But, never the less, it is a memory that I won't forget, ever due to how he made me feel and whilst I was doing my thing I felt every bit of it.

So intimacy and love is one avenue but plain straight out OMG he got me to a point, is another avenue just as much...

If you choose your mate solely on variables that change, how can you know what you are getting?

So agree with that statement.. Which is off topic but marrys well to the point you are trying to make

Im not saying we should condone people basing their choices purely on one physical trait or another, but people shouldn't have to apologize for what, they feel, they like.

This is the point I made above as well. We have a right to feel the way we do, after all the only person we hae to account for is ourselves and what we believe, or how we see things is our right, if we write it, it's our opinion and therefore a debate of sorts may occur but that's the extent of it

I understand that this place is very PC and spends a lot of time catering to peoples delicate sensitivities, but does every person that expresses a personal preference need to be chastised and labeled as shallow? At that point are we criticizing people for being critical of others?

Politically correct? No they do not and after I press send on this, I'm going to edit....

Lets just remember that the thread was put up here to hopefully make women know everyone is beautiful and to make men realise, it doesn't matter to someone whom loves you and work it...

As for any tenticals that spread out from that, as it will, let's remember not to label others, or to disagree with someone elses opinion that they believe, it's "fair call" that's your feelings attitude as it is.

Now, you can always quote me on the above paragraph, above "Lets just remember" to bring it back to making your point on the actual meaning of this thread.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Also putting breast size and penis size in the same category just makes it sound like women don't actually enjoy the act of sex it self.

Lets just remember that the thread was put up here to hopefully make women know everyone is beautiful and to make men realise, it doesn't matter to someone whom loves you and work it...

That is why it has been placed in the same catergory..Nothing to do with sex, to do with confidence, as the intent of the OP, to lift the confidence of the many, many, small penis threads started and the many, many, I've got small boobs, threads started and these people can't shake their feelings.. That is why this thread commenced, to help those understand the above...

[demotivator]

What HAS been said, a few times now, is that when those preferences take precedence over things like personality and emotional connection, is when it becomes shallow and superficial.

Well, I have a small penis. I know this because a few ladies told me so. For some of them it just wasn't enough. Our personalities and the chemistry between us still did matter after we started the deed but it wasn't as good as it could have been. Not for them, and because of that, not for me either.

Those who weren't satisfied with my equipment were fine ladies with good personalities and looks. That is why I asked them out. We had a lot of fun and a few good/great dates before we went to bed. They were certainly not shallow or close-minded. Saying that they were is a huge insult for them and for me, too. Some things just cannot be changed, controlled, substituted or even solved and there is nothing wrong with that. Everybody has needs that define them more than other ones.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

D, but chemistry is not, to me, an "emotional connection"

IDK but maybe if you hold off on sex and build and build the chemistry, turning the lust into feelings first, and naturally spend along time being intimate before hand, things may work out better.

I see chemistry as non attached...no feelings, no emotions...and often that is where that fails.

But, also like I wrote what happened to me all those years ago, there was only chemistry then, but he was that good I turned into a wild thing

[Texinator]

I'm still waiting for someone to explain to me which part of the female anatomy is better stimulated by a longer penis than by a shorter one.

[jns]

Those who weren't satisfied with my equipment were fine ladies with good personalities and looks. That is why I asked them out. We had a lot of fun and a few good/great dates before we went to bed. They were certainly not shallow or close-minded. Saying that they were is a huge insult for them and for me, too. Some things just cannot be changed, controlled, substituted or even solved and there is nothing wrong with that. Everybody has needs that define them more than other ones.

Shallowness is generally not a complete condition, rather it is shallowness about some subjects or in some cases about many cases. If they looked at your equipment and pronounced it not making the grade, then that may be shallow if they had no experience in what you were able to provide. However if they had been out with a lot of guys and knew that none of them in your range or shorter were able to fulfill them, then that may not be shallow. However, if a girl goes out with one guy that is maybe a few inches above the normal range, then declares any guy at the low end of normal range and shorter is not good enough: that in my opinion is very shallow when it comes to sex.

If you look at the ranges of normal in penis size (Google for it), you will see that places like China and Southeast Asia have shorter normals than the western world. However, if you Google population statistics, you will find that there are high populations in many places over there. Ask yourself why this happens, can these people have fulfilling relationships, or is it that every time it is time to have another child, the man has to drag the woman to the bed to get it done (like cartoons of cavemen)? Look up the statistics for China and India.

[jns]

I'm still waiting for someone to explain to me which part of the female anatomy is better stimulated by a longer penis than by a shorter one.

Oh, I can think of several. If you want to hit her cervix, a long penis would be better. If you want to hit the end of her vagina, give her no foreplay and have a long penis. If you want to choke her in oral sex, I would think a long penis would work better. But notice none of these is better for the girl.

From what I have read, most women who want to feel filled up during sex want a bigger girth penis (within reason), not a longer one.

[chaya]

If you look at the ranges of normal in penis size (Google for it), you will see that places like China and Southeast Asia have shorter normals than the western world. However, if you Google population statistics, you will find that there are high populations in many places over there. Ask yourself why this happens, can these people have fulfilling relationships, or is it that every time it is time to have another child, the man has to drag the woman to the bed to get it done (like cartoons of cavemen)? Look up the statistics for China and India.

I did Google it and found that Japan is a country where men have the shortest organs. Since I am Japanese, that could explain why I have so much pain when my hubby's long organ bangs my cervix. Nudging it is OK but repeatedly banging it can be excruciating. We are careful to keep that from happening but sometimes get carried away.

[Guest]

I have had more than one woman who has told me that any woman who says penis size doesn't matter is a liar. I used to date a woman who told me that when she was in college she dated a guy who was very small. After than first time she never went out with him again.

As for bust size, to me it's immaterial as long as I really care for her.

Good luck,

Tom

[kristalyn_04]

As for bust size, to me it's immaterial as long as I really care for her.

Well, then why would it be any different with penis size?

Grrr... ok seriously I'm going to shut up now... over and out.