[FlowerFairy]

I move between my parents house and a shared flat, so this isn't an option, lol

[FlowerFairy]

Uhhh another question, any vibrator that is sold as a G-Spot vibrator, is that also suitable on the clitoris?

[Butterflylily]

Hey, have you ever tried shower head? XD it sounds silly but it works also, try more than 1 pillow, maybe 2 or 3 on top of each other, something I used to love was, putting something with a penis shape (Bottle,Baseball bat) id put it under the pillow, and (not hump) rub.

If your gonna get a vibrator dont get one thats a big deal like the Hitachi Wand orsomething O_O cause it can ruin your first time :/ and trust me, it could bring problems with your love if the only way you could orgasm was with a vibrator (trust me on this, experience) get yourself a simple one if you want. You could try a dildo too, maybe a 6 inch etc.


And, of course most importantly, dont masturbate for a while sounds weird right? but trust me, control yourself and stop masturbating for ummm...lets say 3 weeks, and then try using your hands or pillow. Why not masturbate for 3 weeks? well I noticed I get more sensitive the more I wait, and the less I masturbate the better it feels which equals=Heaven


But yeah trust me, after a whlie, like weeks or months, you slid your hand down and there...slowly...and Boom your like O_O wooow hehe, hope that helps!!!! ^_____________^

[FlowerFairy]

How does one have the will power to resist their urges for 3 weeks?!

[Butterflylily]

How does one have the will power to resist their urges for 3 weeks?!

XD Silly, just focus on other stuff, such as school, idk work, going out with friends, I personally notice the more I spent my time bored, home doing anything, I masturbate more, but when Im doing something like hanging out with friends, playing soccer, karate etc without noticing.... ive been like months without masturbating, right now I havent masturbated in 1 month I bet if I touch right now ill go crazy cause Im super sensitive.... Im sure. But if your wondering why you cant orgasm anymore and dont enjoy stuff, well there you have it,


Theres your answer..., your masturbating too much, maybe too many times a day and your clit get un-sensitive, same thing goes for guys (I think), Look at it this way, control yourself and think "I have to not masturbate atleast in 3 or more weeks, so I will be able to get more pleasure and "Orgasm"

Focus on that and im sure you have the will to do it. And in case you dont think its true, trust me it is. Look....My boyfriend didnt touch himself in like years!!!! because of a mental problem.... and after a special night we had... you can imagine how crazy it was, but just to give a example of how it was XD we both had to put socks in his mouth so his screaming wouldnt be so loud.

I hope that helps and, im sure you have the will to control it, remember its for a good cause, good luck

[FlowerFairy]

Uh and also, the toothbrush I've sometimes used as vibrator has a round rubber handle on it that I've inserted into my vagina a few times. Again, this feels pretty good, but I don't quite orgasm from it. It is about 5 1/2 inches long and 1 inch in diameter. Should I just keep using this for my insertion needs or look into something more proper? (It feels reasonably tight when fully inserted)

I'm not sure that my clit is that unsensitive, with direct stimulation I get very twitchy within about 30 seconds. Also uhhh I don't usually masturbate multiple times a day, but I do when my period is nearly here, like at the moment (Masturbating around 4 times a day, lol). Once I get it, and for the few weeks after it, I go back to about 2 - 5 times a week

[FlowerFairy]

Oh and also just today I tried tilting it really hard towards my g-spot. That felt really good and powerful. But I feel like I can't stimulate it that well with this.Can only apply pressure and not so much movement. I can pull it into and out of it, but I wanna try rubbing more. But I'm worried I'll damage my vagina if I do much sideways movement. =/ But it still feels much better than when I rub it with my fingers. =(

Wow I'm bad at this.

[Butterflylily]

It looks like you didnt take my advice, but trust me, try not masturbating for a while and get back at it again, you'll see the difference, hope that helps.
Also idk if you know this, but remember its not just toys, and hands and stuff, pleasure is mostly a mental thing, try looking at a hot guy or thinking about someone you like, or watching brad pit kick butt lol idk anything, but I hope you take my advice .

[FlowerFairy]

I'll try your advice once nothing else works, ok?

Not masturbating will be a last resort

And I've tried looking at/ thinking about guys. It helps, but not with orgasming. Maybe I am incapable of orgasming properly now

[jns]

Would a pillow tied onto the table leg and then a sheet of something slippery (Not entirely sure what I could use though, but I should be able to find something, maybe even an old rain coat I don't wear) wrapped over the top of it be likely to do the trick?

And the table is in a corner, and is pretty heavy anyway so I doubt I could move it.

I would think something like a hand towel would be not too thick. Have you tried this yet?