[sameboat]

I am going to keep trying. Im not one to quit lightly. I come from a strong Catholic background where marriage vows are taken seriously. Im sure I can endure a sexless marriage for longer as we try work on it. This morning we had a nice hug. Even little things like that help.

[Frustrated420]

Dealing with your frustration

Bro, I have been married for 6 years now. I am in good physical shape but my wife isn't. She keeps saying she will exercise and lose weight and things but she doesn't. Once in a while she will get some motivation to run but then she just gives up after a day or so. I have been very sexually frustrated for a long time and since I do not want a divorce, I smoke weed now to deal with my sf. There is nothing worse in the world than not having your sexual needs met but cheeching the bong sure helps with the anger and lonliness. I work nights and toke when I get home. My wife is a very busy lady with school an work and so I understand that finding time to work out is hard. I have literally been in tears because I feel as if she will just continue to gain weight and I will continue to be unhappy. Best of luck though, welcome to marriage.

Ps: complimenting doesn't always work when your wife has deep seeded problems about her appearance.