I am fortunate to have a SO whose drive and desire for intimacy is higher than my own.
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Yes, I do. Not very often like 24 - 30 times per year. I'm a guy that enjoys physicial intimacy a/k/a sex and if I'm not "getting it", for me, masturbation is no substitute, so I just go with out.
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That's understandable. Sex is always much better than masturbation, and some people just don't get enough out of solo time to really want to masturbate at all.
If I remember correctly, the people making Harry Potter toys once sold a vibrating broomstick that ran on batteries. Of course, lots of people started using it for more than just pretending to fly around, and the product was pulled from the market eventually.
I say she should take matters into her own hands then
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For me regular sex does eliminate masturbation. Once a week is probably sufficient but still is somewhat frustrating. I don't get regular sex so I fill in with masturbation.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Sooner or later it will be illegal to do off label use of consumer products.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Believe it or not I DO not masturbate. I cannot get anything out of it. I do touch myself sometimes but not to the point of masturbating. I find it hard to get turned on enough to get there on my own. Maybe my past trauma still numbs me and until now I find it a challenge to reach the peak on my own or even with my husband (as often), relative to most women.Comment
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