[Olympia]

After my pregnancies and 3 C-sections I used to think as you... But, events and time will change your body. You are much more then the shell you wear. This applies to men as well, just not the pregnancy part.. (LOL)

[chaya]

I have 2 long scars on my lower abdomen from operations. I got them when I was raped and beaten almost to death. My husband knows the whole story behind them and I often see a tear in his eye when I catch him looking at them.

I'm sure he don't notice them when we are reveling in the thrills of fornication.

[punchdrunkloved]

Chaya I am sorry that you had to endure that...I was molested as a young girl and maybe that is where some of my perfectionist ideals come from. However, I am glad to see that you didn't let it stop you from finding your love and your ideals on sex. Guess we didn't let it completely define us and who we will ultimately become where our spouses are concerned. Thank you Olympia, it does make me feel better that I am not the only one who has thought this way. I see so many woman that are comfortable in their own skin and sometimes I am but other times I get weirded out lol

[Mes T]

Your man married you, the way you are... And he gets turned on by YOU, the way YOU are...

He doesn't care! You are gorgeous and sexy - be confident!

As Tex says, boobies are boobies, and they are delicious in every which shape or form.

Next time you have sex go on top of him (facing him) instead of hiding, turn the lights on, take his hands and guide them over your body, touch your boobs with your own hands (MEN LOVE THIS), and trust his reaction. I don't think it's possible for a guy to feign interest in sex, like it's sometimes possible for women.

Go go go!

[punchdrunkloved]

Gonna try that tonight Mes!!!! I will let you know how I fared lol On the plus side of having the reduction though is my girls are perkier than when I was 15 and are firm!!!! lol So there is the beginning of that complex melting a bit.

[Mes T]

Oooooh perky and firm! You lucky devil you!

Flaunt it madam, you are GOR-GE-OUS.

[Chas]

Trust me. When you take off your clothes, your man is not focusing on your scars. He's focusing on your curves. Forget about the scars and the imperfections--he is. Don't let them interfere with your sex life. If my wife were avoiding certain positions just because of some scar, it would drive me crazy. Embrace your body the way it is and have fun in bed.

[goose]

Women are goddess! As a man i love my wife and her body! SHe has a few scares from surgeys but they never cross my mind when we are making love. Turn around and give him all of you. He loves you for who you are or he would have never married you. Have Fun.

[Guest]

HD is right, men see what they like. Your partner likes you. You are sexy. As a man that has seen hundreds of naked women (on beaches), some of which have had children, then I can tell you they are often the most sensual and attractive females on the beach !

[WildChild]

If only people with perfect bodies had sex there wouldn't be much making whoopie going on.