[darcdante]

If only people with perfect bodies had sex there wouldn't be much making whoopie going on.

There's be none whatsoever, cause those people only exist after extensive airbrushing and photoshopping.

I'm a bit sensitive for a guy (as most guys who browse women's sex forums probably are lol) but I think my perspective should be pretty accurate since we're talking about your husband and not a casual sex partner. That means he loves you, and that love is grounded on loving everything about you, including scars.

My fiance (wedding is in a couple weeks) is a bigger than average girl with a huge backside. We met on eharmony and she told me I'd better love "ghetto booties" before we ever met (she always got hit on a lot by black guys because of her booty). Thankfully, I do love them! But with that kind of build on a woman comes other things. She has stretch marks (as do I). I rarely notice them anymore. She also has a dark patch of skin on the inside of her upper thighs. The other day I asked what it was, and she said it's calloused skin from her thighs chaffing together. My feelings immediately went from idle curiosity to a love of these darker patches of skin. Those calloused areas are part of who she is; she wouldn't have them if she didn't also have that butt I adore so much. I realized they were a part of her, and of what made her so beautiful to me. I immediately just wanted to kiss her calloused thighs, so I did.

You'll never see her legs on the cover of Cosmo, but she's far more beautiful to me than any of those models are. Her "imperfections" are what make her who she is. They don't detract from her beauty; for me, they actually add to it.

[Guest]

I'm glad I didn't reply until HD did. I think her quote about scars is right on. Maybe not an exact fit in your instance, but close enough to make it clear.

The fact that this man wasn't in your life when the events took place that caused the "marks" to appear tells me that he really doesn't see them (honest translation: of course he sees them but he doesn't care!). He loves you, the way you are, the only way he's ever known you...period.

"Where women see bumps, bulges, imperfections (and in your case scars), the men who love them see only curves"

There is NOTHING more beautiful in this world then the naked body of the woman we love.

You being on top, especially in cowgirl, for the man who loves you, is the best of all worlds.

[rcoreyus]

If you SO says he likes your body, then believe him, and don't try to convince him otherwise.

Is there any sign that he isn't attracted to you?