[caterpillar79]

It's not that he's not THAT attracted to you anymore. It could be the familiarity issue that most couples go through. In the course of a relationship the passion dies down a little, it does not mean it's gone though. Is it always like that? Or are there days when he takes the time?

Try experimenting on Karezza or tantric sex - it might help you.

[diplodocus]

...and how old is he exactly?

He is nearly 26 and IMO very immature for his age!

[diplodocus]

It's not that he's not THAT attracted to you anymore. It could be the familiarity issue that most couples go through. In the course of a relationship the passion dies down a little, it does not mean it's gone though. Is it always like that? Or are there days when he takes the time?

Try experimenting on Karezza or tantric sex - it might help you.

I can understand the whole familiarity thing. I guess part of it could be that...and yeah there are days where he takes the tine and genuinely make me feel very special and loved! But they seem to be few and far between recently.

I'm not sure what they are but I'll check them out

[Texinator]

He is nearly 26 and IMO very immature for his age!

It sounds like it. There should be no reason why he can't please you when you're on your period. Even if he was absolutely convinced that the blood would make his penis fall off, he could still provide some manual or oral stimulation, since no vaginal penetration is needed for that.

[punchdrunkloved]

I may be a guy, but I too am controlled by my wife. I hate it, she only wants it when she is horny, what about my horny? No, I have to take care of that and I'm sick of it. I don't like the control on either side. When one is horny, the other should be sympathetic to the others needs. Unfortunately, some feel the need to control others instead of being there for them. I fulfill her needs, but she could care less about mine, so I too know the feeling of being someones tool. As soon as she gets off, she's done whether I am or not. She doesn't give bj's or handjobs- that's, "My Problem to Deal With!"

MarkT I am so sorry that this is the control opted over you. I can agree with other women here, when I am on my period I DON'T want him anywhere near there, just because it freaks me out..lol however I lavish the attention on him otherwise with more than just Bjs or handjobs. I agree with your plight that one partner should be sympathetic and at some point one or the other will not feel very sexual. I am fortunate to have someone that is just as amorous as I am but I am grateful that I don't control him with a vise of sex. I hope that at some point all partners in relationships can talk about the issues instead of withholding one of the most precious things a couple can share so intimately.