[lola91]

you can definatley ejaculate (sometimes multiple times) without having ever having an orgasm it happens a lot to me and when it first started happening i had the same thoughts worrying that it was pee and avoiding having sex for a while untill i realised what it was. its only recently and with my new partner that i have started having proper orgasms ive found the best way is your partner wears a vibrating **** ring, you go on top and grind your clit against the ring, id never had an orgasm in my life before we used the vibrating rings now we use them all the time and i almost always have an orgasm

hope that helps

[mtsc12]

I have done the same, and it's not particularly pleasurable for me either, just makes a big mess! I can only achieve orgasm with clitoral stimulation, no matter how hard we go at it, and at times it can be frustrating for the both of us. There's nothing wrong with you girls who cant "come", it took me a while to be comfortable with my sexuality and begin to explore it. you'll find what works for you if you just experiment.

*lola the ring sounds like a fine idea for us, it's been in the back of my mind but we may enjoy the "hands free" option more than we thought.