[Troop]

It's media and carp..............

I prefer a good blackened Talapia or some Mahi Mahi.

Kidding aside, thanks though. It's nice to hear from some people who look beyond the superficial.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'm going to say this..

A woman in love? Told you chemistry is great, love gets that higher and in that, they tighten to accommodate..Learn who really knows how to love..Not chemistry you must have alot going for you for trhem to act that way to start with which is cool, good.

Apparently superficial................

It's media and carp..............

[Troop]

Thanks. I had THOUGHT that they were someone I loved/cared about and felt the same way about me. Apparently not. :\

The whole media barrage of "bigger is better" just feels like rubbing salt in the wounds.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Definately what she said...and well said.

Geez, ask yourself what type of women you are sleeping with for heavens sake...

[ItsASecret]

A 4" penis IS less than average. 7" is pretty big to begin with and then going to more than 9"? And it's better to have too much than not enough. I've been cheated on and hurt repeatedly directly because of my small size. It wasn't alluded to, they told me straight to my face.

The simple answer to that is there are morons in this world. I apologize if this offends you or anyone else because maybe you liked those women for your own reasons, but I am simply speaking as a woman saying that utterances such as "you are too small" or cheating because of a man's size is absolutely pathetic. There are people that live by the bigger is better complex and treat people the way you have been treated and to me, in my opinion, they are morons. It hurts to have something like that said to you and no one should have things like that done or said to them. I know what it is like to be compared, I have very small breasts and I have overheard the countless conversations of guys saying they would never be with a chick who did not have big boobs. It hurts. I know those women hurt you but those girls are not real women. Real women do not care about the size of a penis just like a real man does not care about the size of a woman's boobs.

[Troop]

A 4" penis IS less than average. 7" is pretty big to begin with and then going to more than 9"? And it's better to have too much than not enough. I've been cheated on and hurt repeatedly directly because of my small size. It wasn't alluded to, they told me straight to my face.

And if size didn't matter, then it wouldn't ever be brought up in movies, television shows, music, and everywhere else. The obsession comes from being made to feel like less of a man because I'm not even average, let alone 7" or more.

[cathygirl]

I've never measured my hubby, but he's on the average to smaller size and I'm very glad. While anal sex is not an all-the-time thing for us, we do that on occassion because he likes it and I could not do it if he was any larger. There is nothing that would be any better if he were larger that I can think of. We both like giving oral and at the same time quite often. Size sure doesn't matter there, and as far as intercourse, I don't think longer would be any better there either. I don't get the obsession with it, to tell you the truth.

Sorry, but I don't believe that. I wish love DID conquer all, but in my experience it just doesn't. A lot of people say that size doesn't matter, but they're referring to average, not BELOW average.

Troop:

May I ask where you are getting your information from. If I may, where are you getting your information from that a 4.5 inch penis is "less than" and larger ones are better?

[lizzardb63]

[QUOTE=SoCoKen;298859]I hate the stereotype that having a big penis makes you a "lazy or self absorbed" lover. Not all small guys try harder and not all big guys don't try at all.

Completely agree. As I stated, my fiance is one of the large ones...but he cares how I feel during sex and wants to please me more than any other guy I've been with. SIZE DOESN'T MATTER, espcially when it comes to what kind of lover you are.

[lizzardb63]

Above average isn't the greatest either Troop. My fiance is 9 1/2 inches long and has a lot of girth... now the first time I had sex with him going from my ex who was 7 inches long to him it was like WOAH WOAH WOAH...wait just one minute...THAT'S supposed to fit in there?! but the more we had sex the more I got used to it. It isn't the size that makes sex good, its the bond, experience, and the love you share with each other that make it more. I feel the love that my fiance is putting forth and the effort which makes me want him more and makes it even better for me and I try to show the same effort to him. Most women don't orgasm from penetration of the penis alone anyway...so figure out what your woman wants and likes and you can give that to her in a variety of ways.