[Troop]

Sorry, but I don't believe that. I wish love DID conquer all, but in my experience it just doesn't. A lot of people say that size doesn't matter, but they're referring to average, not BELOW average.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

5.5" is perfectly average. But what about the guys that are below average, 4" or even less?

What about them?

Love conquers all, it's not the size it's how you use it, confidence gets you everywhere in life, a woman adjusts to a man's size, don't think I need to go on.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

So wish I could share another link Grrrrrrrrrr.

Someone sent me an email today " You wont see ads like this again" to which I replied "thank god"...

The ads, were of a variety of products, being sold, coca cola was one of them, "never too young to enjoy" and a mother giving it to a baby, another was of "the more she cleans, the happier she is make sure she takes her vitamins" with a woman in the 50's in her little apron, smiling away, with the man handing her the vitamins....Then there was, lol's... A list of items for sale, hoovers, toasters, "I'd bet she'd love one of these for Christmas, make her smile, go one buy her one"...

Every single ad, bar the baby, was targeted at women doing chores and loving them, and wanting soooo much to have the latest hoover, or appliance to keep that little home cleaner...yay...

Okay rant over, just saying I agree with organizations promotions are out of line, in may instances.

Just my 2 cents:

I think JNS and CW make very wise point right above. I know this is easier said than done, but men need to reject the completely dysfunctional societal message that a bigger penis is better and realize that organizations that promote such thinking are almost always trying to manipulate men for profit (e.g. such as the size pills or techniques they sell). These organizations are trying to exploit male vulnerability to make profit off of men.

Most studies outline that approximately 90% of men are in the same size range. Those that are an inch or two smaller or larger – one or two inches makes no difference to most women – other than a few women that have some sort of psychological weakness (size issue are almost always psychological, not physiological, and I would argue for those women who prefer a larger penis that these women underscore psychological weakness – such as low ego development).

Likewise, pornography – which has not good quality to it and only harms others – go to great lengths to find some those men who are beyond the 90% percent and will after use digital trickery to make these look larger than they really are. Again, the pornography industry main goal is to exploit men and women to make money off of them.

My main point – instead of comparing and wising to be bigger I think men (and women) need to see the organizations that promote bigger is better as fake and dysfunctional that are trying to manipulate people to make profit off to them.

[Troop]

5.5" is perfectly average. But what about the guys that are below average, 4" or even less?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Maybe another point then, with the word "love" is comfortability, totality and therefore not frightened to be yourself, do things that maybe you wouldn't otherwise contemplate or feel comfortable totally as alot of women I think hold back, in general with a "partner" which then as you say, also takes it to a higher level.

[jns]

I'm sure being in love with the other person has a lot to do with great sex, but I'm sure that technique, skill and innovation have a lot to do with it, also. No one thing is exclusively the overriding factor, but someone who has never been in love while having great sex has never reached the next higher peak.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Please feel free to continue this thread, bare in mind though, the OP has been banned, therefore reply in general...

I agree though, I wonder really if it's just such a "match" that makes the sex sooo good nothing to do size, with foreplay, with being an expert with anything, other than just into each other full stop in lust and love...

I hate the stereotype that having a big penis makes you a "lazy or self absorbed" lover. Not all small guys try harder and not all big guys don't try at all.

Everything in life is a give-and-take. No one way is just best, just take what you have and like it, it's all you get. You can either like what you have, or dislike what you have, and liking things is always better. Except for meth.

[mrdee]

Your right on that EJ! Although I have been told I'm a little larger than normal but I dont hear her complain ever and she has no problem giving me oral. I'm 6.8 long and 5.5 around and I also dont think that it can take care of everything and I do everything to get her satisfied first. All that matters is that it works for the two of you!