[nattynoona]

I don't know why so many women 'prefer' larger penis' anyway. I find I have much more fun and enjoyment from an average sized one.
It's big enough to make me feel satisfied, but does not cause any pain/discomfort when it is rough, or deep.
My boyfriend wishes he had a bigger penis, no matter how many times I tell him his is perfect, he won't believe me. Which does frustrate me somewhat.

most of the guys ive been with that have had big or even monster size wangs have been terrible in bed. they sort of assume that having it exist has taken care of 95% of the task lol.
most guys that have a size bigger than average still think they have a small penis and this really annoys me. i dont think its so much of a female complaint as a male compaint. men are the ones that carry on about it. my ex was obsessed with it.

i find it really interesting as most mainstream porn is made for men but the sizes are usually big to massive. its theatre i guess.

some further downsides--really big ones can stretch you right out and your natural lube cant keep up, i dont like feeling like im giving birth lol not nice. --sometimes they cant stay hard, too much excess and not enough blood flow. ---most importantly for me, i like going down, its the first thing that happens when me and my partner go to bed as its the fastest thing to get me going, if its too big you cant deep throat very long (or at all) and u cant do it as long as it hurts your jaw.

also 5.5 isnt that small...

Thanks, since I am in good shape (175 pounds, 5.11 feet tall and muscular) my penis look rather long and hard, I don't have big balls and l keep it trim down (like my wife)....I love that she can take me in her behind completely (that's so pleasurable for me - after she relax, I can really but really pound that behind with a vibrator dildo en her vagina and that make her very horny (but I haven't been able to make her cum like this yet...close though), also, since she started trying deep throw techniques, that she is little by little developing skills and because I am not too big, her work in trying to have control over the gags reflexes will be less as once she gets used to my size then the rest is just develop even more skills.....what I am saying is that I am happy to feel confident and sexy when naked.....I am also proud to report that my wife has on average 2 orgasms a night, last night were 3 powerful one, follow by several mild ones....we use the magic wand (she loves it) - don't have to tell you how she attacks my penis after that.....she makes noises like she wants to swallow my whole piece...it is so exiting....anyhow, any advise on the g-spot massage beside the basics?

marcopoly,

Your post leaves me with an extremely uneasy feeling about you and your perspective of sex. You seem to be caught up in what you get out of sex. Tell me what your do for your wife.

I would never want any girl I am dating to have her mouth deformed. I want her to enjoy sex.

I do get the feeling that your wife submits to you for reasons other than concerns for herself.



Adios,

T

not at all, face deformed is a primal fantasy , I love my wife so much, and been together for 23 years.....and we are only 41 and 40....true, I have a high sexual drive, but she has too.....she is learning to relax and enjoy our relationship together....we are both in sync...

[Elanor-Jane]

most of the guys ive been with that have had big or even monster size wangs have been terrible in bed. they sort of assume that having it exist has taken care of 95% of the task lol.
most guys that have a size bigger than average still think they have a small penis and this really annoys me. i dont think its so much of a female complaint as a male compaint. men are the ones that carry on about it. my ex was obsessed with it.

i find it really interesting as most mainstream porn is made for men but the sizes are usually big to massive. its theatre i guess.

some further downsides--really big ones can stretch you right out and your natural lube cant keep up, i dont like feeling like im giving birth lol not nice. --sometimes they cant stay hard, too much excess and not enough blood flow. ---most importantly for me, i like going down, its the first thing that happens when me and my partner go to bed as its the fastest thing to get me going, if its too big you cant deep throat very long (or at all) and u cant do it as long as it hurts your jaw.

also 5.5 isnt that small...

[jns]

Maybe this thread should be cited when the next post comes along about a guy complaining that his super sized penis is not super sized enough or a guy complaining his average sized penis is going to be laughed at.

[kristalyn_04]

SO glad to see men FINALLY come on here and say that they are satisfied and confident with what they have. Good for you guys! It will make your sexual experience with women so much better, because when you're confident you will be more receptive and open to learning things instead of constantly worrying about what is between your legs.

[waya]

Exactly, marc. I can do a lot more fun things with a man who has an average or even a bit smaller member. And many options makes for lots of fun

[MitchE]

Marcopoly. I'm with you bro. At a mere 6.5 and not particularly girthy I too have learned to "embrace" what I have. Look, there isn't much we can do about it. It's how we were born and it's not like we have a say so in it. We can't build it up like we can our muscles in the gym. What we CAN do is be amazing lovers. Listen to our women. Put forth the effort in learning their bodies, their desires, their likes and dislikes then tuning in with them to achieve a sexual experience that they or you has never had before. And if THIS isn't enough... and a womens only concern is that you or I aren't some 9 inch stud that may not take the time to do as we have done....well she just isn't worth it in my book and she can move on!!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'm detecting alot of "all about me" in you...

I don't think you have to defend yourself, the OP is making a good statement about him, it's all about him And then sharing that here to let "men" know that love and feeling confident conquers all.

Now this song is playing in my head "what's love got to do, got to do with it",

Decides to leave now...

CW

Hi Chandler's Wish,

Yep, you're probably right. I might have read it incorrectly.

In my defense though, being a dude who knows lots of dudes, many actually believe foreplay is feeling for a woman's natural lubrication and mounting them. To my way of looking at life, not only are they assuredly bad in bed, they are selfish for not talking time to learn.

Excellent foreplay is one of the best components of an exciting and thrilling sexual experience. I literally love the look of sexual ecstasy upon a woman's face, especially as she wafts upon velvety clouds of pleasure while I await her descent to my arms.


Adios Amiga,

Taos