[Irelandlover]

Irelandlover:
I am again amazed that there are guys ouy there who don't take every opportunity they have to do oral on their lover when she indicates that she enjoys it.
I'm getting to be ashamed of my fellow guys! Maybe I'm the weird one... I don't know. Is there any other guys out there reading this thread with any insights on this? Does the majority of us doing it for the woman in our lives? If you don't, what is it that turns you off?
The only suggestions I have to offer you Ireland, is the ideas I mentioned to Tinkerbell. Any of those things would make me putty. Like Epsilon said, men are generally not that intuitive so you may have to tell him what you need and see if that helps.

Thanks I have done that, it ends up being usually a focus on a woman giving the man oral and me copying her! Rather than my husband copying the man giving oral to the woman. I've also got straight out of the bath and gone down on my husband, sometimes managing to get 69 where I actually get licked rather than just played with as I give him a BJ. Any other ideas!

I to like it with the tip of the tongue, don't like it when he puts his whole tongue there or presses his face in. Also its best when a lot of kissing has taken place round the top of the thighs.

[tinkerbell930]

cowboy-
You TOTALLY sounded like John Wayne....I heard it very clear! hee hee

I haven't gotten to try your suggestions either....but I am looking forward to it.

I do have ONE more suggestion for you....if you have any massage oil that is taste-able (is that even a word)...drop little drops and lick each one off her...start with the neck and work your way down...your hot breath all over her body SHOULD drive her crazy! Seriously, by the time you get to YOUR goal, she will all but beg for it....I KNOW I WOULD!

[cowboychuck]

tinkerbell:
In my best John Wayne impression: "why, thank ya little lady!"
Didn't sound like John Wayne??? Well, I guess it loses a bit in the posting.

Haven't had the opportunity to show her my moves yet.

[cowboychuck]

Virgo1981& Hotdogg
I thought I posted a reply to you but I don't see them anywhere. I'm kind of new to this posting stuff, that was my first reply so I suspect I ended up deleting them instead. Clueless, but cute.


Virgo: what turns you off about it? What would your guy need to do to improve it for you? Or is it strictly a case of just don't do it?


Hotdogg: any suggestions from you about improvement? Is there anything you would suggest to the women who don't enjoy that could make it better for them?

[cowboychuck]

Irelandlover:
I am again amazed that there are guys ouy there who don't take every opportunity they have to do oral on their lover when she indicates that she enjoys it.
I'm getting to be ashamed of my fellow guys! Maybe I'm the weird one... I don't know. Is there any other guys out there reading this thread with any insights on this? Does the majority of us doing it for the woman in our lives? If you don't, what is it that turns you off?
The only suggestions I have to offer you Ireland, is the ideas I mentioned to Tinkerbell. Any of those things would make me putty. Like Epsilon said, men are generally not that intuitive so you may have to tell him what you need and see if that helps.

By the way, Epsilon, my defense on that issue is that having an erection takes all the blood from my brain! Well... maybe not all, I don't mean to brag.

[cowboychuck]

Ravsoma:
I hope you are still here, checking in.

We obviously got some serious misunderstandings happening here. The mis-spelling of your name was a typo, not a slight. Sorry about that. I did not mean to belittle you or bash you... truly. I'm a lover, not a fighter and I didn't intend to start one of those long-running verbal battles you see in other threads. It's obviously not the point of this whole forum. I firmly believe the idea is to discuss issues of mutual interest and concern and to be supportive. If you have anything to contribute to the thread, then you have as much right as the rest of us. The advise I gave you earlier was not meant to be condescending, it came from the heart. I do not look down on you... not for your age or anything else, okay? I guess you simply hit a nerve with your response and I reacted poorly. Sorry; DON'T feel snubbed. I accept your apology, now hopefully you will accept accept mine.

Friends?

[Irelandlover]

I really enjoy it however get it a lot less than what I give him. He says he likes doing it but I'm not convinced otherwise he would go to do it much more.

[tinkerbell930]

cowboy-
You are SO funny....I love the toothpast analogy! That is SO my husband. He really is a gem and I love him insanely....I am sure we will get all the kinks worked out.
He always tells me I am perfect and he is far from it, but working on it. And he doesn't say it in a bad way either.
You are a great friend and listener.

[tinkerbell930]

...I feel abused in this thread. I'm sorry for ever coming in here. I'll leave the adults to have a chat instead.

Note: I'M A VIRGIN!

Rav-PLEASE don't feel that way at all. Honsetly, we don't mean to make you feel abused.

Like I said in one of my posts...I am 39 and still don't have a total handle on life!

[cowboychuck]

Tinkerbell:

Glad to hear that. I will let you know when I get the opportunity to try my "new skills".
Your hubby sounds like a gem who just needs a little polishing here & there. My wife tells me I'm a "work in progress" myself so I would say its normal. Realistically, I guess that's exactly what a marriage - a relationship in general - is: the give&take, we change on a lot of levels to make it work. Anything from not squeezing the toothpaste tube in the middle to how our partner feels during intimacy. Communication sounds like the major factor and as a guy I think I can safely say that doesn't come easy for us. Will keep you posted.