[Irelandlover]

I really enjoy it however get it a lot less than what I give him. He says he likes doing it but I'm not convinced otherwise he would go to do it much more.

[cowboychuck]

Ravsoma:
I hope you are still here, checking in.

We obviously got some serious misunderstandings happening here. The mis-spelling of your name was a typo, not a slight. Sorry about that. I did not mean to belittle you or bash you... truly. I'm a lover, not a fighter and I didn't intend to start one of those long-running verbal battles you see in other threads. It's obviously not the point of this whole forum. I firmly believe the idea is to discuss issues of mutual interest and concern and to be supportive. If you have anything to contribute to the thread, then you have as much right as the rest of us. The advise I gave you earlier was not meant to be condescending, it came from the heart. I do not look down on you... not for your age or anything else, okay? I guess you simply hit a nerve with your response and I reacted poorly. Sorry; DON'T feel snubbed. I accept your apology, now hopefully you will accept accept mine.

Friends?

[cowboychuck]

Irelandlover:
I am again amazed that there are guys ouy there who don't take every opportunity they have to do oral on their lover when she indicates that she enjoys it.
I'm getting to be ashamed of my fellow guys! Maybe I'm the weird one... I don't know. Is there any other guys out there reading this thread with any insights on this? Does the majority of us doing it for the woman in our lives? If you don't, what is it that turns you off?
The only suggestions I have to offer you Ireland, is the ideas I mentioned to Tinkerbell. Any of those things would make me putty. Like Epsilon said, men are generally not that intuitive so you may have to tell him what you need and see if that helps.

By the way, Epsilon, my defense on that issue is that having an erection takes all the blood from my brain! Well... maybe not all, I don't mean to brag.

[cowboychuck]

Virgo1981& Hotdogg
I thought I posted a reply to you but I don't see them anywhere. I'm kind of new to this posting stuff, that was my first reply so I suspect I ended up deleting them instead. Clueless, but cute.


Virgo: what turns you off about it? What would your guy need to do to improve it for you? Or is it strictly a case of just don't do it?


Hotdogg: any suggestions from you about improvement? Is there anything you would suggest to the women who don't enjoy that could make it better for them?

[cowboychuck]

tinkerbell:
In my best John Wayne impression: "why, thank ya little lady!"
Didn't sound like John Wayne??? Well, I guess it loses a bit in the posting.

Haven't had the opportunity to show her my moves yet.

[tinkerbell930]

cowboy-
You TOTALLY sounded like John Wayne....I heard it very clear! hee hee

I haven't gotten to try your suggestions either....but I am looking forward to it.

I do have ONE more suggestion for you....if you have any massage oil that is taste-able (is that even a word)...drop little drops and lick each one off her...start with the neck and work your way down...your hot breath all over her body SHOULD drive her crazy! Seriously, by the time you get to YOUR goal, she will all but beg for it....I KNOW I WOULD!

[Irelandlover]

Irelandlover:
I am again amazed that there are guys ouy there who don't take every opportunity they have to do oral on their lover when she indicates that she enjoys it.
I'm getting to be ashamed of my fellow guys! Maybe I'm the weird one... I don't know. Is there any other guys out there reading this thread with any insights on this? Does the majority of us doing it for the woman in our lives? If you don't, what is it that turns you off?
The only suggestions I have to offer you Ireland, is the ideas I mentioned to Tinkerbell. Any of those things would make me putty. Like Epsilon said, men are generally not that intuitive so you may have to tell him what you need and see if that helps.

Thanks I have done that, it ends up being usually a focus on a woman giving the man oral and me copying her! Rather than my husband copying the man giving oral to the woman. I've also got straight out of the bath and gone down on my husband, sometimes managing to get 69 where I actually get licked rather than just played with as I give him a BJ. Any other ideas!

I to like it with the tip of the tongue, don't like it when he puts his whole tongue there or presses his face in. Also its best when a lot of kissing has taken place round the top of the thighs.

[cowboychuck]

Ireland:

I think the best suggestion I had for tinkerbell was the stripping with stockings & garters underneath (and maybe some flimsy sheer undies rather than a thong). Something that covers, but you can see through is sexier and as far as I know guys are crazy about the stocking/garter thing. Even those garter-pantyhose things that are just straps at the top. I don't know why exactly, but we love straps.
And like I said to tinkerbell, don't let him get undressed, at least not totally until he's looked after you first. As soon as the little head esapes, it takes over and you've lost his attention. I would also suggest making him lie on his back and sitting on him if that is a position you like, that way you are in control and you can direct him to suit you. You can always strip him down after and ride him, if you want. I find that very exciting. Even though I'm the cowboy, I don't mind at all being ridden. Did you see the sugestion about the whipped cream in the strategic spots? Or wine, if you're into that. That should focus him on some licking. Again, I would make him keep it in his pants until you're satisfied.
I really liked tinkerbell's idea of the fantasy notes. If you exchange those at breakfast, but tell him not to open it until lunch time that would keep him thinking about it all morning. When he reads it that should keep him thinking about it all afternoon. How could that not drive him crazy??? Researchers claim that we guys think about sex something like every 5 seconds so if he's normal he'll be thinking about that note.

Give those ideas a try, hopefully you can drive him crazy.

I liked your suggestions, thank you. Now you've got me thinking about my wife...

[cowboychuck]

tinkerbell:

As always, your ideas are certainly driving me crazy. I might just get the massage oil out & try it on myself!!!

I know, I know - that's so scary, now you have to sleep with the lights on.

[tinkerbell930]

cowboy-
You sure make my day brighter! I laughed so hard when I read your post! You have an awesome sense of humor!

I know my hubby loves whipped cream, so I am going to see if I can get a can and tell him I am dessert!

I also agreed with Ireland...about the kissing on the thighs...that is sexy too....