Orgasms

[cyn]

I think you might be psyching yourself out. You seem to be VERY stressed out about trying to get to the climax. If you're thinking about it the whole time "i wish it would hurry, whats taking me so long?", etc..then you'll have a harder time getting there. You should definately take some time, alone, to explore your body in depth. Masturbating will help you find out exactly what gets you going. Then when you're bringing yourself to climax, you'll better be able to show him where to touch, how much pressure to use, etc. If you're comfortable enough, let him watch you. He'll see what makes your body react and learn by example. Men don't come complete with the knowledge on how to please a woman and most love it when you tell them exactly what you like. The main thing is learn how to please yourself first.. Like some of the others said, aquire a vibe after you're getting good at climaxing manually. Get some good erotica to read (helps you relax AND turns you on) or find some type of porn that YOU like. Good luck to you in your journey to sexual oblivion.

[Irelandlover]

Ravsoma is so correct. You need to understand your own body first, if I hadn't masturbated I think I would have found it hard to orgasm. But because I did when I was younger I did every time with b/friend.

It feels like an explosion...O_O Sorry. That's the only way I can explain it.

Why don't you use toys or masturbate? If you find out what you like you can tell him exactly what to do.

"Please yourself before you let someone please you."

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Hi Everyone,
I have read all your posts about orgasms, and I am still in the dark!
I have been married for over a year now and I do not think I have ever experienced one.
We have tried many different positions, and still...
The only times when I get really close is when he does clit. stimulation with his fingers... but even then, I feel like I am climbing a big mountain and right when I am about to reach the top... nothing.
Could someone describe what an orgasm feels like?
and what should I do/change to get one?

I do not use any sex toys, and do not masturbate.... any hints?