[sheriac5]

I do it for my husband because i love him and we do things for each other that makes us happy. its not a chore or a task to do things for the ones you love.

[GoodGuy]

I do it for my husband because i love him and we do things for each other that makes us happy. its not a chore or a task to do things for the ones you love.

AWESOME.

Many people could learn much from this.

[Mes T]

I think that in general there needs to be a shift from a common woman's reaction "it has to be ok for us both" to "how do I make it ok for me because it is so important".

Okay. I don't know if I'm in a nit-picky mood but... I don't agree with this and think it is taking a step backward. You're basically saying a woman should just do whatever, because her partner finds it important? I think "it has to be ok for both of us" is way more appropriate of an answer.

Semen is often times unpleasant, that's the bottom line. What do you expect, for women's taste buds to magically change?

If I misread your post then I apologize, really, but that's how it came off to me.

I would also appreciate a brief explanation of the differences between a "woman's" reaction versus a "man's" reaction toward sex. What about the number of women who post on here complaining that their partners cannot give them orgasms? Does that really compare with a woman not wanting to swallow....?

I don't know. I'm just suddenly feeling very odd about this thread.

[DSemcho]

It depends on what he eats through the day if I will or not, or if I feel like doing it... Sometimes my stomach isn't feeling really good so I know I'll vomit if I do it. The salty taste makes me nauseous.

[GoodGuy]

Okay. I don't know if I'm in a nit-picky mood but... I don't agree with this and think it is taking a step backward. You're basically saying a woman should just do whatever, because her partner finds it important?

No, I'm saying that either partner should do whatever they can that is important to the other. Or at least make that the focus.

I think "it has to be ok for both of us" is way more appropriate of an answer.

Semen is often times unpleasant, that's the bottom line. What do you expect, for women's taste buds to magically change?

You've fallen entirely to what I would call cart-before-the-horse thinking. Let's try to reverse the attitude a little by looking at the underpinnings here: It's Important. If It's Important (note the caps), then THAT'S the bottom line. Do you expect THAT to magically change?

The attitude shift has to be away from:

"I don't find it pleasant, so no way."

to

"I don't find it pleasant, but others have learned, so I will try and try because my partner finds it so important."

If, in reverse, it is so incredibly important for you to avoid something that is incredibly important for your man, then you have set yourself up for disaster.

Don't try to oversimplify this with thoughts of "it's a partnership, both should be caring." Of course, that only makes my point stronger.

Men are half the planet. What they find important cannot be simply overlooked without trying everything you can to solve the need.

[GoodGuy]

It depends on what he eats through the day if I will or not, or if I feel like doing it... Sometimes my stomach isn't feeling really good so I know I'll vomit if I do it. The salty taste makes me nauseous.

If I'm reading this correctly: Good for you(!), in that you're willing to do it when you possibly can. That is a wonderful place to be, and something to be admired.

[GoodGuy]

By the way, is anyone else uncomfortable with the automatic colored bold double underlining of words outside our control? It kind of makes it look like the author is emphasizing certain words and it is totally not.

[DSemcho]

Thanks Good! I'm willing to do a lot with my husband, but he's not the same. He's kinda vanilla

[LanaBear]

By the way, is anyone else uncomfortable with the automatic colored bold double underlining of words outside our control? It kind of makes it look like the author is emphasizing certain words and it is totally not.

That is a browser issue on your PC, not a forum issue. I see no bold double underlined words.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I see this if I am not logged in, as a guest but not as a member, that's very strange...