Can a moderator please move these posts to a maintenance forum? It doesn't belong here. I should not have started this sub-thread, for which I'm sorry.
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IF your man is less than VERY needful of it, then you guys are well off.
If however your man is like every other man I've ever spoken to about this (me included), including the personal interactions about the men of very close women to me, then you are not framing this properly.
You need to find the true need of it from him. If it's important to him, consider that your "ewww" reaction might not be as important as his need.
PLEASE don't make the mistake of so many women and dismiss this as some sort of aberration of male desire. You will pay for that, incrementally, sooner or later. Talk it out with him clearly, not viscerally.
He may well tell you that he doesn't like the idea of you doing something that just kills you inside, but would love the long term attempt to get past it.
Balance.Comment
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I've seen the polls on many different sites and when the question is asked if you like swallowing or not, the overwhelming response is always an enthusiastic yes by a wide margin. I think there's a minority around here who dismiss it out of hand without giving it a fair shake and that's fine. In fact, the more who claim not to like it the better. Just leaves more good men for us gals who do like it. Or it would, if I wasn't married.Comment
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LOL - far enough, but even if I wasn't one for swallowing, I still find it insanely hot to let him cum on me, wherever. Referencing her comment about not wanting it anywhere on her body. I don't know, that is just losing a bunch of intimacy, IMO. I'd be all butt hurt if my hubby freaked out whenever I squirted on him, so it helps that I find his "love juice" lol, highly highly arousing.Comment
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