[Guest]

ok hotdogg. so the only reason you would mind your husband having sex with someone other than you is because he could get an std, his partner could get pregnant, and he would have an orgasm?

so as long as he wears a condom, she's on the pill, and they stop before he orgasms - you'd be fine with it, right? because, as you've said, there's nothing sacred about sex. and your three concerns have been taken care of.

that's brilliant hotdogg. i feel pretty dumb now.

post some more. i feel like i'm learning a lot.

[Guest]

3) You can not get a orgasm drinking coffee

Well, that's a lie. Coffee produces multiple orgasms...with it's wonderfuliciousness.

...This is me being silly because the porn subject is really starting to put a damper on the site. It's funny how it just feels horrible to talk about it on this forum. I never actually knew that people were so hurt from porn until I stepped foot on here. It's starting to bother me now and it's bothering a lot of people, too.

..Exactly how do we go about fixing this problem, so this forum isn't so negative anymore.

[hotdogg]

lol! whilhelm i have already answered your ****** question.

the reason that i stay faithful is because i love and respect my husband that has nothing to do with sex being sacred! and believe it or not my husband does not want anyone else! he tells me he loves me all the time and he treats me like a princess.

whether you like it or not whilhelm, people have sex all the time, people have one night stands, this is just a fact of life and it proves that a lot of people do not follow your belief that sex is sacred.

now i am getting tired of your silly little games, you have failed to prove a single point! you just want to have the last word!

fine you can have the last word! (if it makes you feel better) just remember that having the last word does not make you right it just makes you obessed.

now i have got better things to do than argue with the likes of you! Ravsoma is right this site is not about porn and the subject is getting really boring!

[Guest]

well, hotdogg, i promise not to complain if you decide to stop posting on this subject.

in fact, when you see future posts regarding porn, maybe you should not open them & leave the discussion to only those who are interested, how about that? i bypass threads all the time that don't look interesting. should i start *****ing now about the threads that exist that don't interest me?

porn is a disturbing issue. it impacts a lot of people. it's not too different from the countless threads about husbands neglecting wives, flirting with people at work, being insensitive. there are many, many negative threads on here as people try to navigate difficult, troubling circumstances. porn is just another of those circumstances. i think it's great that some women who are dying inside over this issue can stumble into this site & find some answers, or at least find food for thought.

i'll never side step the opportunity to respond to a post on the topic, especially when it's someone who i believe is misinformed or misinforming everyone else, as was the case with the one who started this thread.

[Guest]

I never actually knew that people were so hurt from porn until I stepped foot on here.

so your time here has not been wasted, even if only for this reason.

[the dude]

Well well well, i see whilhelm could not resist getting in the last word.

[Guest]

actually i just really enjoy being right.

and i have a hard time resisting an argument with people who are wrong.

i thought you'd left us, dude.

[the dude]

whilhelm, who are you to tell someone that they should not post.

not everyone agrees with you, i personally find your advice worthless.

[the dude]

man you really are pathetic, you need to take your head out of the clouds and get in the real world.

[Guest]

you mean i should ignore the overwhelming body of evidence that tells me porn is destructive & i should stop finding all of my sexual satisfaction in my wife & start beating off to porn... and just comfort her by assuring her that all guys use porn...

because that's what everyone else does & says?

wow, dude. that's a great idea!

or i guess i could ignore the overwhelming flood of weak-minded & limp-willed people who walk like lemmings off of a cliff because they're too afraid of their own desires to face themselves - or too afraid of the masses to actually take a stand against the current.

yeah. i think i like that idea better.